Chapter 16 Section 15 is not a siege

one A wise man once said: Marriage is like besieging a city, people outside the city desperately want to attack, and people inside the city desperately want to rush out. There must be many people who have heard this sentence, but there must not be many people who have really understood the taste of it. I've lived in the city, and now I'm out of town. "I don't know the true face of Mount Lu, but I was born in this mountain."When I lived in the city, I only felt that sometimes I was happy, sometimes I was in pain, sometimes I fell in love so darkly, and sometimes I wished I could love each other to the death. In fact, I didn't know what it was like.

Now that I'm outside the city again, occasionally sitting on a tall tree and looking at the scenery in the city, I really feel something special in my heart. What is it like?Perhaps it is just a taste that is not a taste. two What kind of tree is a tall tree? Usually it is a dead tree, the roots may not be dead, but the branches and leaves are all withered, and the person sitting on the tree may fall down at any time and fall into the bottomless abyss. Because they have no root, nothing to depend on. People who live in the city see a person sitting high on a tall tree outside the city from a distance, and they will definitely feel that this person is cool and happy.

But when they sit on this tree, maybe they'd rather lie in the gutter. When I say this nonsense, I don't necessarily mean to persuade everyone to move to the city. "Boys should marry when they are colleges, and girls should be married if they are colleges." "A tree is as tall as a thousand feet, and its fallen leaves return to its roots." "Life must have a destination." I don't necessarily agree with these words. But whenever I see the sunset at dusk, under the shade of the trees, a pair of gray-haired old couple, holding hands, leaning on each other and whispering softly, I hope that I can have a kind of power - to make lovers in the world feel happy Get married.