When people live in this world, they often don't know why they live all their lives, let alone why they live like this.This statement sounds a bit shocking, but it is in line with the living conditions of quite a few people. A female writer once said in an article that she has always cherished the complex of "the daughter of the sea" all her life.Her statement once attracted some readers to find Andersen's fairy tales to understand what kind of complex there is in the story. What kind of complex is the "daughter of the sea" and why did she form this complex?Regarding this point, we have not seen any statement from her. Perhaps she has already understood the reason, and perhaps she still does not understand it.She might attribute it to this fairy tale she read as a child, and since then the "Daughter of the Sea" complex has become a deeply ingrained seed.However, what is hidden in this beautiful story, why does it develop a major complex that affects and dominates a mature woman throughout her life?

It is undoubtedly sad for a person to spin ignorantly without knowing what kind of complex his life is dominated by.However, if you only know this complex, but don't know the reason for it, it will still leave half of the darkness. Piercing the veil of the human mind, we find that many people in the world, and absolutely everyone, live in a very special and individual way.This kind of special and individual life may be unreasonable in the eyes of others, but it is taken for granted in myself without any doubt. To use a proverb: Everyone has his own way of living.It's just that the truth is often neither understood by others nor realized by oneself.

Some female writers started writing when they were young, and created a large number of love stories, and what runs through them is always a girl's dream.The artistic value of such works does not belong to the scope of this book. We just want to explore the writer's personality revealed by this literary phenomenon.If a female writer is obsessed with describing girls' dreams all her life, it can only be said that it has deep psychological roots. In this world, women, like men, have their own special and individual ways of living.Whether she lives in this way or in that way has its roots.

In literature we see more than one woman writer with this tendency.Some of them also wrote some seemingly magnificent social novels. However, even in such works, all the emotions and melancholy of life in the novels showed a basic tendency: the author was being a lovable little woman. Not only writers, but also among ordinary people, we often find that quite a few women, after entering middle age or even older ages, still have not extinguished the dream of girls, and are always immersed in the role of little women. On closer inspection, they all have similar roots. Of course, women and women are not the same.

Some women have already revealed the nature of a little mother when she was a little girl.When she became an adult, she showed the role of a big woman even more.Not only does she have sufficient motherly personality in front of her children, but she also shows a maternal role as a big woman to her husband, brothers and sisters, and even to all peers.Even when caring for her parents and elders, she also reveals a maternity personality.They will not absolutely lack the need and instinct to be a little woman, however, they appear as a big woman and a maternal role in their overall life. Exploring the life process of such women, it is still found that they also have reasons for their psychological formation.

The personality differences between women and women are various── Some women like to play the role of a strong woman, willing to enter the world alone, and even compete with men; some women are as weak as water, willing to play the role of housewives, good wives and mothers, and get a steady stream of happiness from it. Some women tie their love to a man for a lifetime, and treat this feeling with faith, and get the fulfillment of life through their unswerving dedication; some women regard continuous hunting of the opposite sex as their life achievement, and use it as a golden brick. Pave your own ladder to climb the brilliant top of life.

Some women have transformed their Electra complex into a teacher complex since they were young girls, looking for male teachers and male protectors all their lives, especially those elder men who are similar to their fathers; some women hated their fathers since childhood, Even hostile to all men of the same age as his father. We have also seen that men, like women, show great differences in various orientations and dimensions of life── Some men show full manly and fatherly personality after adulthood, and use this personality to treat all interpersonal relationships and the world; some men never seem to grow up, and always treat surrounding things with the role of a little man.

Some men especially like small women, who like to play the role of daughter; some men like big women all their lives, like those women who can play the role of mother in terms of age or personality. Some men are full of trust and love for women; some men are full of wariness and hostility towards women. Some men seem to be rebellious by nature; others, on the contrary, are submissive. Some men seem to be born with leadership qualities and are good at gathering people together, like a fish in water; some men seem to be born withdrawn and timid, walking alone. Some men are sharp-edged, grandstanding, willing to compete for the first place in everything, and are ambitious and aggressive all their lives; some men seem to be indifferent to the world, retreat and guard, and are willing to play the role of enjoying the shade under the big tree.

Some men seem to be born with deep religious emotions, with the spirit of self-examination and repentance; some men seem to never have the need for religion, do not know what repentance is, go their own way, and only seek profit. Some men are prudent and frugal all their lives, saving their credit, popularity, social relations, satisfaction of conscience and money in doing things that take pleasure in suffering; Countless dimensions, with countless differences.