Chapter 23 the fourth part

I want you not to give up all your previous efforts, and I want to open a door for you, leading you to 5,000 years of Chinese culture, so that one day, you can communicate with our ancestors by simply picking a book from the Chinese bookshelf, You can build your national self-esteem and become a rooted person. Talk about dressing Next step, you may want to dress boldly, attractively, or even put it more clearly, to attract the opposite sex. Everyone, with the growth of age and physical development, the choice of clothing will change. This is all right, as it shows a life of growth, independence, and finding a mate, but, in any case, it should be commensurate with age, status, and occasion of wearing.

wear your taste "Are those your new briefs?" I asked your mom when I saw a big bag of briefs on the cabinet last night. "No! I bought it for my daughter, but I bought it wrong, so I have to take it back." Mom replied. "why?" "Because my daughter wants bikini-style briefs, the pants she wears outside are low-waisted." Mom said: "This kind of high-waisted briefs will show." Isn’t it? I always see you showing your belly button recently. Today at noon when you tied your hair and walked out, you also saw your belly showing. He happily replied, "It wasn't on purpose."

The question is what is intentional? Even if you don’t raise your hands over the top on purpose, so that the short top is up and reveals a part of the stomach, there is always the possibility of reaching for something high, or tying your hair like today, so that the belly button is exposed ah! Of course, I'm not saying that showing your belly button is not good-looking, I'm not that old-fashioned.Your mother also often educated me, saying that she went to a house as a guest some time ago, and the daughter of that house had shorter clothes and a ring on her belly button. A guest laughed and said she was very fashionable. The girl shrugged and said to the man. one sheet.

Omg! She has a ring on her tongue too. "So!" your mother said, "Nowadays young people really have no control over what they think or do." This also reminds me of when your brother was in high school, one day he actually had an earring on one ear. I was so shocked, I tried not to have a seizure, and smiled pretendingly enlightened. But from that day on, when I ate, I would sit on the side where he didn't wear the earring.Fortunately, he took it off soon after, and never wore it again, saying "this period has passed". I agree with the phrase "the period is over" because everyone, including me, has periods like that.With the growth of age and physical development, everyone's choice of clothing will change.

For example, when you were in the middle grades of elementary school, you loved wearing European classical long skirts, and you proudly said that your classmates said you were a real princess, because you wore beautiful skirts every day. But in the senior grades, you changed it and took out the blue jacket that you thought was dark and refused to wear, and you no longer wore skirts, and changed to long trousers, saying that skirts were too inconvenient. Since the beginning of junior high school, you have more problems. In the past, your mother helped you pick out the clothes the night before, but suddenly it doesn’t work. You have to pick out the clothes yourself in the morning, and you are not satisfied with the clothes your mother bought for you, so you return them all.So the clothes became something you had to buy yourself, and you bought clothes that Mom said she would never have thought of.

I remember that not long ago, I found that there were always shiny things sticking to the soles of my feet, but I couldn't figure out what it was.Until one day, when I saw you wearing a pair of shiny jeans, I realized that those glitter powders fell from your pants. But within a month, you didn’t see you wearing those trousers anymore, but you started to wear a twist-dyed floral T-shirt and pure cotton low-waisted light-colored trousers with thin belts tied around the waist. At first glance, I thought it was sleeping pants. But I think you are really youthful and beautiful in that way, but I am a little worried, I don't know what you will change into after a while.

When it comes to dressing, your mother and I are very democratic, because we are both over half a century old, it is difficult to know what you little girls are thinking, and I would rather let you decide. But I also want to tell you that there are several processes for people to wear clothes—— When you were young, you wanted to dress like a princess, because your parents dressed you up; dressing up beautifully means that you are favored. When you get older, you need convenience at first, and you feel that freedom is the most important thing, which means that you start to leave your parents step by step and move towards independence.

Then, you have your own ideas about dressing cool, looking good, and showing your personal taste. Next step, you may want to dress boldly, attractively, or even put it more clearly, to attract the opposite sex. I must say there is nothing wrong with that, because it shows a life of growth, independence and finding a mate.It's just that I also want to emphasize early on that your clothes should be appropriate for your age, status and occasion in any case. For example, a girl in her twenties who dresses more sexyly, showing her youthful charm, can attract a lifelong partner.But when she is married, in her thirties, and deliberately dresses sexy, and that sexy is in the explicit category, it is wrong.

Likewise, if you're a middle school student today, it's not appropriate to dress sexy.Because you are a student, your duty is to study hard, not to court a mate, so it is good to wear your own taste like you are now, but it is not appropriate to go in the direction of Lu. Oh! By the way! I saw your graduation travel rules yesterday, awesome! I especially appreciate the prohibitions on hooking shoulders, walking alone, and wearing "spaghetti dresses" whether boys or girls. I didn't understand it until I asked your mother, which means that you can't wear a top with two thin shoulder straps like spaghetti.

Who said that American schools are open? The opening of the United States also has principles!