Chapter 21 talk about responsibility

The "feng shui" that Chinese people pay attention to has a lot to do with "moving lines". Think about it, if a person hits the left side of the house every day and hides on the right side, he will be injured if he is not careful. After a long time, will it not affect his mood or even his body? be careful! there is a step here This evening, you and I were playing in the yard, and found that the workers who repaired the low wall used up the water pipe and forgot to put it away, so that the water pipe just crossed the walkway by our side door.As you worked with me to wind up the water pipe and hang it back on the wall, you scolded, "The workers are so careless. Fortunately, no one was tripped over."

I'm glad you said that, not because you curse, but because you know that "being considerate of others" is an important thing.Just did you know? You may also make mistakes like those workers. For example, yesterday, when you came back from school, you threw your schoolbag on the stairs when you entered the door, and then took off your pocket bag and threw it on the aisle. Isn’t that the same mistake as the workers? If the parents-in-law are careless, or if the father ran downstairs in a hurry, stepped on your schoolbag, or got caught by the rope of the waist bag, wouldn’t it be troublesome?

Also, do you remember, I will tell you that after going to the bathroom, you must close the door, or open the door completely, and never let the door stand in the middle of the road at a ninety-degree angle, lest I walk out of the study room without Be careful, hit it head on. In fact, I've already bumped into it once, but I'm sorry, I didn't tell you, lest you laugh at why I was so careless while walking and reading.Yes! Blame me for not being careful. Many accidents are due to the carelessness of the people involved in the accident. For example, if there is a "manhole" on the road that is not covered properly, someone may accidentally fall down.

You can say that the person who fell was careless, but from another perspective, if the "manhole cover" can be carefully covered, wouldn't there be no accidents? Similarly, if you put the bathroom If the door is closed, I won't bump into it? So we can say that for every disaster caused by carelessness, there may be other carelessness; if everyone can be careful and consider others, then carelessness can be minimized. Because of this, I often tell you not to put things on the "moving line". What is a "moving line"? A moving line is the route that people always go through.

You know the interior design so that everyone can move around smoothly; a bad design might have an extra cabinet on the left and a table leg sticking out on the right. The "feng shui" that Chinese people pay attention to has a lot to do with moving lines.Think about it, if a person bumps into the left side of the house every day and hides in the right side, he will be injured if he is not careful; After a long time, can it not affect the mood, or even affect the body? In the same way, we usually put things, we must also pay attention to the moving line, on the line where people often walk, you must not throw things casually, especially those with ropes , things with straps; also, your books cannot be thrown anywhere, because thick books can trip people, and thin books can slip people.If you don’t believe me, try it. Put a magazine on the ground and move it with your feet. You will find that because the magazine is printed on coated paper, there is no resistance at all when it rubs against each other, and it slides like ice skating. same field.

Think about it, if one day you ran to answer the phone in a hurry and stepped on such a magazine, would you not fall? If you fell and hit the pillar cabinet next to it, what would happen? I have seen it before, a disaster caused by the carelessness of the people in front. When I went to the supermarket that day, I saw a woman holding a floor cleaner, looking at each can; she even opened a can and sprayed it. Then, within two minutes, there was a scream, a loud bang, and a customer lying on the ground. As the ambulance carried away the bloodied man, I saw the woman who had tried the spray hiding in the crowd.I believe that the customer who fell down probably stepped on the cleaner that the woman sprayed on the floor.

You said that such a carelessness of hers could cause serious injury and even take a life; even if no one knows, can her conscience not be condemned? Over the years, I often think of that scene, and often blame myself-if I could have warned the woman at that time, stopped her from spraying casually, or asked her to wipe it off after spraying, maybe there would be no subsequent tragedy. So, today I want to tell you: We must always think about others, and don't cause other people's "carelessness" and permanent "sadness" because of our own "carelessness".

We even take the initiative to remove obstacles when we find obstacles on the road that may cause danger to others; when we almost fail to see the steps and fall down, we immediately tell the people behind: Be careful! There is a step here.