Chapter 16 Talk about victory or defeat

But I also want to tell you that in this world, if you work hard, you will definitely gain something.Sometimes, you may use bad seeds, the wrong soil and water, and when you encounter bad weather, you will put in the best effort. On the contrary, it will not be as good as those who have the right time, place and people but don’t work hard. Talk about victory or defeat Although it may not be possible to get a little harvest for a little hard work, people who work hard can always get more rewards; The hunter who strikes. In this world, there is no such thing as a hard work, and there must be a harvest.Sometimes, you may use bad seeds, the wrong soil and water, and when you encounter bad weather, you will put in the best effort. On the contrary, it will not be as good as those who have the right time, place and people, but do not work hard.

Win and lose is life Today when you came home from school, I asked you "How are you at school?" You didn't answer, and I felt something was wrong. Sure enough, I walked into the kitchen and saw you hugging your mother, with red eyes. "Are you feeling unwell?" I asked you. You didn't answer, but Mom replied: "It's just a runny nose." I asked you again: "What didn't you pass the exam?" You nodded your head, and tears rolled down like broken beads: "I didn't do well in the history exam, and I only got 84 points in the exam."

"Did everyone pass the exam?" I asked. A lot of people did better than me. "You pouted: "I've never taken a test so badly." "Then turned around and rushed upstairs. I also followed upstairs, saw you entered the bathroom, and said to me angrily: "Don't talk to me, just cry a little bit." Sure enough, after a while, you have calmed down, sat in front of the desk, bent over to flip through your schoolbag, and took out a thick history textbook. I know that textbook, because you left it on the table in the living room a few days ago, and I once flipped through it. In addition to telling history, it also contains many related world famous books.I remember when I asked you if it was an extracurricular reading, and when you said it was a textbook, I praised the book for being so vivid.

I sat on your bed and watched you take out the examination papers for inspection. "Is it wrong?" I asked you again. "It's wrong." You said: "But I really don't understand why I am so confused. Everyone else is right. Even the worst boys know a few 'military powers', but I am wrong! Forgot to write Germany ’” You cried again while you were talking, whimpering and saying, “It’s not that I didn’t read it, I read it!” My child! Seeing you cry makes me sad too, especially when you said that other classmates asked you about your grades, I can imagine your embarrassment at that time, because your grades have always been the best.

But I also want to tell you that in this world, if you work hard, you will definitely gain something.Sometimes, you may use bad seeds, the wrong soil and water, and when you encounter bad weather, you will put in the best effort. On the contrary, it will not be as good as those who have the right time, place and people but don’t work hard. You also need to know that knowledge is not necessarily obtained from textbooks. The naughtiest boys may read war novels all day long. Their elders may have participated in World War II and always talk about the past at home; they may like to read newspapers , Watching the history channel and quiz programs, they seem not to study hard, but because of the atmosphere around them, they learn in nature.You can even guess that the war computer games they played helped.

There is a Chinese saying - "If you plant flowers intentionally, they will not bloom, but if you plant willows unintentionally, they will become shade". This is also the truth.It doesn't necessarily mean that you will succeed if you put the most effort into it; on the contrary, you may win because of the chance created unintentionally. But does it mean that you don't have to work? Wrong! Although it may not be possible to get a little harvest for every sowing, those who work more can always get more harvest; this is like watching a tree. Although it is possible to encounter a rabbit that hits a tree by itself, it is absolutely impossible. Comparable to a proactive hunter.

Let me give another example! I have loved writing articles since I was a child, but I often receive a thick letter within a few days of submitting the manuscript, which contains rejections, and the editor-in-chief doesn’t even bother to write a word of comfort. For a while, I was so sad that I was rejected, and I stopped contributing, but I always imagined that my own article would be published when I turned the paper.Think about it, is this realistic? If I don’t submit a paper, how can there be an article published? It is true that there is a sad feeling of being rejected for submitting a paper, but if I don’t submit a paper, there is no chance of being sad.Therefore, the only way for those who "intend to plant flowers without blooming" is to continue to work hard to grow more flowers.

I remember last night at dinner, when my mother-in-law said, "Raising children is so busy, it's hard work." What did I say? I said that raising children is really hard, but it is because of the suffering that there is joy.The child failed the exam this time, and the next time he passed the exam, suffering turned into joy; the child was sick the day before yesterday, and the fever subsided today, and worry became joy.I also said, "If life is just a flat line, how boring is it? It must be ups and downs, with sacrifices and gains, to be rich." Well, I also want to tell you now that life is interesting only when there are successes and failures.You failed today, learn from the pain, review and improve, and turn defeat into victory tomorrow, how great! And if you can learn from today's quiz, so that you will not make mistakes in tomorrow's big test, this quiz is not like a vaccine, a little pain But can you avoid serious illness?

Dear little girl, don't be sad for others who do well in the exam and you do badly! You should even be sorry for those naughty boys who can get home a report card with a score of 90, and then proudly say that he won You are happy! There are wins and losses, that is a colorful life!