First People who inquire about man-machines are prone to resentment. Those who leak the secrets of heaven are vulnerable to being sent by heaven. good friend "But I've bought all the food...Okay! Thank you...and..." Before Xiaoying could finish saying "goodbye", the other party hung up the phone.For a long, long time, she sat there blankly, with the phone still in her hand, making whining, whining sounds, which seemed a bit harsh in this already empty office. "What's the matter?" A pair of hands reached out to help her hang up the phone, and when she looked up, it was the new Ms. Tang.

"It's nothing." She twitched the corner of her mouth: "Why haven't you left yet?" "What's the rush? Is there anything waiting for me to do when I get home? Home doesn't feel like a home. It's better to be in the office and feel more fulfilled." Xiaoying raised her eyes and looked at this middle-aged woman. Everyone said she was not easy to mess with, but she saw a sense of loneliness, a loneliness similar to her own.Seeing that others were also lonely, Xiaoying relaxed, tossed her hair, and smiled: "Would you like to go out to dinner together, my treat!"

No one knows that today is Xiaoying's birthday, except "him".certainly!Now there is another her—Miss Tang. It wasn't until drinking coffee that she said that today is her birthday. Unexpectedly, Ms. Tang was not surprised at all, but just smiled lightly: "My birthday is often celebrated like this. He always has something to do, and he always calls suddenly to say sorry, causing me to make a good job at the table. Vegetables, and candles, shed tears... Alas! What can I do? Share it with others..." Xiaoying was stunned.Suddenly, she found that Miss Tang in front of her was like a mirror, standing in front of her eyes, allowing her to see herself.

The unbearable tears suddenly rolled down one after another.I quickly took a napkin to block it, but was still seen by Ms. Tang, who asked anxiously and concernedly: "What's wrong with you? Something's hurting you. Could it be..." Xiaoying's defenses collapsed, and all the secrets she had never told anyone for so many years poured out like tears rolling down her face. After finishing speaking, it was already late at night, and Ms. Tang drove her to the door of her house. This was something Xiaoying had never experienced before. No matter how familiar her colleagues were, she never took anyone home. This was her secret from "him" , cannot be known.

But, today, no!Tonight, she felt so relieved, that she finally met someone who had the same pain and suffering as her.Find yourself no longer alone. Miss Tang became her best friend overnight.It's just that she didn't understand why other colleagues gradually looked at her strangely.Sometimes, the phone on the table rang, and she could feel that dozens of pairs of eyes were watching and listening to her. Finally one day, Miss Ma secretly said to her: "Everyone knows about you! In fact, you shouldn't have said it. We have worked together for six or seven years, but you didn't say anything. Why did you tell Miss Tang when she came? That's another big mouth, bragging everywhere. , saying that she knows about your private affairs."

"But she, she too..." "What about her? Falling in love with a married man like you? That's a joke! She just got married earlier this year!" Xiaoying couldn't help but rushed to Miss Tang, and asked in a low voice, "Why did you tell others about me? You just got married, so why did you lie to me?" Miss Tang slowly turned her head: "Oh! Let's make friends! I think you're so sad, it's probably like that, make up a story to make you feel better." He smiled again, "Besides, if I don't make up that story, you won't tell me about you story!"

(think about it) One day, a student came to my studio and asked me my birthday as soon as he entered the door. Then he hurriedly took out a small palm-shaped computer, typed my name and birthday, and then on the LCD screen of the computer, It showed a lot of numbers like "Heaven, Earth, Personality" and my "fate chart". The students read line by line, and after reading a paragraph, they asked me if I was right? I smiled and scolded her, what not to learn, learn fortune-telling.She rolled her eyes, "Teacher! Do you know? With this little computer, I have made many friends and accomplished many things that other people can't do. When I meet a stranger, I just take out the little computer and ask him if he wants to do the math. Immediately knew his name and date of birth. Then, whether it was accurate or not, he nodded if he was correct, and shook his head if he was not. In a few moments, I found out all three generations of his ancestors and the population of his family. And "She said mysteriously, "Teacher! You have to know that when a person tells you his secret, he will treat you very well. This is my brilliant trick!"

From the life of my student and the previous story, we know that the most direct way to establish a particularly intimate relationship with a person is to share his secrets.In order to achieve this goal, people will use all kinds of means. They can tell your fortune, fill out forms for you, play psychometric games for you, or exchange their secrets for yours: even exchange "fake secrets" for you. Your "true secret". However, we also need to know that "a shallow friendship is a deep one, which is both taboo for gentlemen and thin for villains." Everyone may feel uneasy after telling you his secret.Because he is not sure whether you will tell his secret.

So, in the easiest way, he also asks you to tell your secret.It's like the underworld.For newcomers, in order to prove their loyalty, they are asked to perform a mission, or when they kill people with weapons, hand over the gun to the novice and ask him to "make up" that is a fatal shot. If you do so, you will be an accomplice, and you will not be able to escape from then on. In the same way, if someone tells you a secret and exchanges yours, be careful.If you speak his, he will speak yours. It would be nice if things were so simple, but the problem is, if you don't go and "make up" a shot, and if you don't want to tell your secret, or if you really don't have any secrets to tell, I'm afraid you will be unlucky too, that shot may If it falls on your head, even if the opponent doesn't have a gun and can deal with you immediately, deep down in his heart, he will always be wary of you, thinking that you have caught his braid.One day, when war broke out, he really had a gun in his hand. When he met you, he would probably raise that gun.

Therefore, we need to know that whether you tell others your secrets or listen to other people's secrets, there is no benefit. You may have "short-term benefits" or "long-term harm". There are many side effects. (Please read the story below.)