Chapter 13 snow for the atrium

In the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter droughts. There are droughts in hot summer and droughts in cold winters. In comparison, winter droughts are more depressing and will cause anxiety like hedgehogs to stagnate in the atrium. At this time, you should consciously, Give yourself a snowstorm in your heart. Yes, people are saying that now that we have entered an era of competition, everyone should not be afraid of competition, be brave enough to participate in competition, strive to become a winner in the competition, and join the ranks of so-called "successful people"-these words do not say Wrong, but incomplete and inaccurate.A comprehensive and accurate statement should not only emphasize competition and reward winners, but also emphasize the importance of

The establishment of guarantees is not because of violating the rules of competition, and those members of society who become the weak and losers can also gain human dignity and enjoy the rights of basic quotas of social wealth.This is the drenched and fluttering auspicious snow that the whole society should fall in the dry season of competition. But we ourselves can't just passively wait for the rain and snow in society, we ourselves have to give ourselves a snowstorm in our hearts.The flying snowflakes are condensed with self-knowledge, that is, don't be too demanding on yourself, don't set yourself such a high and difficult ranking target in the competition, you need to deeply understand that the champion, runner-up, and third runner-up are certainly gratifying and congratulatory. It is quite an honor to be in the top eight, and it is also a pride to be in the top 100; even if you just pass, as long as you do your best, you can make a drink for yourself!

The snowflakes in the atrium, like the snowflakes in nature, create a pure and white world, get rid of jealousy, get rid of narrowness, as long as the success of others is really the result of their efforts and talents, even if they do not need to applaud, You can also be happy for it.Knowing that in this world it is impossible for everyone to be the first, everyone is top-notch, it is impossible for everyone to be successful, and it is impossible for everyone to obtain the same amount of wealth and fame. The differences will always exist, and the levels are difficult to smooth out. We should feel righteous indignation, What we firmly oppose is not running on the same starting line, the unreasonable competition rules, the unfair judgment in the competition process, the black box operation, the violation of regulations, and not the crossing of the finish line. Rewards for first comers.Such atrial snowflakes can enable us to resolve the anxiety caused by being behind, and enable us to accept the unsatisfactory real situation presented before us after a period of hard work.

Life is only once for us.Individual life cannot survive without a group, and the best rule of group coexistence is fair competition, which we should recognize and devote ourselves to, and the accumulation of human civilization has become increasingly rich because of this; but the meaning of our existence is not limited to Here, we should also consciously enjoy the joys of life beyond group competition, which transcends ranking status, academic titles, money and wealth, the so-called definition of success and failure, the evaluation of others, and self-evaluation .The most precious, one of the joys of life that belongs to me, is to give my heart a snowflake like a white butterfly flying. Those snowflakes may be the aftertaste of family, friendship, love, or memories of childhood. It may be the many trivial but bright shining points in the course of life, it may be some secret feelings that only you know yourself, or some ambiguous and inexplicable feelings...

Don't lament the winter drought you encountered in your life journey, hurry up, let's have an auspicious snow that nourishes life in your heart!