Chapter 38 Apologize to brother

Brother: I'm so sorry that I scolded your student just now. A female student who claimed to be your graduate student called me last night to ask me about martial arts novels, saying that it was for writing a thesis.I don't know much about that question, so I asked her to call me again at seven or eight o'clock tonight.I read the book this morning and prepared for that question.I have a party in the evening, and she called me before 7 o'clock, and I said, can you ask me when I get home?She asked what time it was, and I said you will call me at 9 o'clock.I hurried home after the party and had many things to do.And that classmate called four times in a row since 8:30, but I didn't answer.Her phone number is 6418××××.I called my cell phone twice, and finally at 8:57, she called again, I was very angry, picked up the phone and reprimanded her for being impolite and not keeping time, she actually said in a strong tone that her watch was already 9 o'clock Yes, in a tone as if I owed her.I put down the phone angrily.After a while, she called again to argue that her watch was indeed that way, maybe a few minutes faster.The implication seems to be that my watch may be a few minutes behind.I am wrong, you have called 5 times since 8:30.She lied casually and said, "No way, I don't have one." I said, do I want to show you my "Caller ID" record?You are not apologizing, but justifying. Objectively, you want to show that I have wronged you, as if I have no guts.I just have no guts, never flatter students, and never think that students are good things.I scolded her: Why is a graduate student in the Chinese Department so ignorant of life?Haven't you even read "Send Dongyang Horse Shengxu"?Don't know how to ask questions?Is the teacher born to owe you to work for you?For a small problem of my own, I just took other people's time as inappropriate time.I was wrong, but I was so forceful, without any sincerity.I was very angry when I said it, but the student was very calm, with a cynical tone, and said in the voice of reciting the text: "I am very sincere, it is really wrong...Why are you doing this? I really can't say... ...I am very sincere..." I said that this is not a self-criticism, but a denunciation of me, without a single specific self-criticism, very much like a mature reporter deceiving people, not like a student.Please don't contact me anymore.

Brother, I am very sorry, I was very angry at that time.I can like stupid students, naughty students and even reactionary students, but I have never been able to forgive students with bad character, and I may be particularly disappointed with the current students of Peking University and Tsinghua University.I have come into contact with some of your Tsinghua graduate students in the past two years, and I feel very bad. They are more selfish than I expected, and they are much more shrewd and snobbish than undergraduates. Education in the 1990s is finally bearing fruit. What is the use of teaching them knowledge?Our teachers don't want to take graduate students anymore, I think we are almost there.

But put down the phone, thinking that this is your student, I can't help but feel a little sorry for you.And I would have been happy to discuss that question with her, and the materials I was going to answer her are still on the phone.I may be as hot-tempered as you are in terms of "evil like hatred", and I don't plan to practice it.If my own students are late, I will seriously criticize them and ask them to start from respecting the time of others.Maybe my requirements exceed the "bottom line of personality" of the current students.Please forgive me a lot.The younger brother apologized here.

I wish you a happy Lantern Festival! Sincerely, Kyung Dong