Chapter 35 the price of democracy

Blogs are really good stuff.Because you can hide in a private place to attack anonymously, slander at will, and abuse freely, it provides a comfortable space for self-healing and detoxification for some men and women who are not psychologically balanced.When I went to Tian Ge's "Screen Connects You and Me" program to talk about blogging, I clearly pointed out that this function of blogging should not be blocked, so that those hard-working workers can vent the bad side of human nature in the virtual space. It is beneficial for them to work hard in real life and be a real good person.As long as it does not cause actual damage to the person concerned, insults can be insulted. Who made your so-called "celebrities" bring such great psychological trauma to others?If you don't scold you, how can you solve the hatred in your heart?This is the price that democracy must pay.

I had an important meeting all day yesterday, so in the eyes of those who scold me, it is "pretend to be busy and have no time to read blogs".I met a brother who asked me who the student was.I said no matter who it is, let it go.Brother said, why do you deny all Tsinghua graduate students because of one student's rudeness?I said nothing. I just said that the few Tsinghua graduate students I met recently felt bad. I did not say that Peking University, Renmin University, and Beijing Normal University are all good students.In fact, based on my experience, the worst students are still at Peking University, because firstly, Peking University’s management is not as good as Tsinghua University, secondly, Peking University’s ideas are mixed, and thirdly, it has the conditions to read a lot of books, which makes the bad guys even more powerful.The brother said, you didn't tell which brother it was, which made everyone feel insecure.I thought, yes, there are a lot of my own seniors, seniors, uncles and seniors, and it was originally my senior who later honored him as a senior.In addition to those who became officials and made a fortune and went abroad, there are also a handful of those who are in colleges and universities.But this is also good, it will help protect the identity of that student.

One of my junior sisters said, go to your blog to see if you have any enemies. In the beginning, many people supported you, but today many people scold you.I said that there are no enemies, they are all honest and gentlemen. Seeing that an ignorant and heartless person like me is not as depressed as they are, I will do it bravely.A senior sister asked, is the student's message true?I said it wasn't like it, the dialogue and the plot were not made up, and I made two phone calls, and asked "I'm Kong Qingdong"?What else is "rude scolding", I often scold students, but if you ask all the middle school students, college students, and graduate students I have taught, have I ever scolded a rude word.I didn't even tell my students the jokes in Wang Shuo's novels.The plot was basically made up.The sentence I spoke the loudest at the time was: "Graduate students from the Chinese Department, why are you so rude! Haven't you read "Send Dongyang Masheng Preface"?" After I finished speaking, I felt that I was quite pedantic. List the bibliography?At the same time, there was a snicker in the calm voice on the phone.Some well-meaning friends thought that the student was "acting like a baby", saying that acting like a baby is also a way of admitting mistakes, but it was not like that at the time.People who have never been teachers may not know how some students are using and being rude to their teachers.The university is better, but the middle school teachers are so miserable that the media dare not report it.Many students don't say anything, but they think in their hearts that teachers are working for them.Of course, there are also bad teachers who build teacher-student relationships with practical interests, and this media has reported a lot.My senior brother didn't say hello in advance, and the student declared his family name, and I agreed with the etiquette of being a junior brother, and I didn't have an "obligation" to tutor her.Some friends think that "it's only natural for a teacher to answer questions for students", isn't that too overbearing?That postgraduate classmate would definitely not have such a low level of ideological consciousness.But maybe democracy has to pay such a price. We all go to Einstein for advice on the theory of relativity, and send 10,000 students to call his home phone and knock on the glass of his home. As long as he gets angry, his personality is bankrupt.

There is also the question of time. I said that I called at seven or eight o'clock, because I needed time during the day to prepare.This has taken up my time.I'm out for a meeting at 4:00 p.m. What's wrong?Do I have to wait at home for a call?Those friends who talk about tolerance, why are they so intolerant towards teachers?Called me ahead of time, it was the first time she did something wrong and I didn't blame her.The watch is faster, which is understandably a frequent occurrence.The second time I agreed to call at 9 o'clock was to ensure punctual communication, and I was talking about death.So although I got home early, I must have read other books and written other articles during that time.What's wrong with this?Could it be that I have free time to run wild on other people's blogs instead of answering their calls?Since 8:33, I have called the landline 5 times and the mobile phone twice. Is this "quite" wrong?Friends who support this, is this how you call others?The last time I picked it up was at 8:57.If according to the anonymous person, her watch reads 9:7, then her watch is only 10 minutes ahead. When she made the first call, even her watch still read 8:43.If you are wrong, you are wrong. Originally, an explanation is enough, but "it is a mistake if you don't change it."This has nothing to do with whether the teacher is a teacher or not, and it should not be the case between classmates or colleagues.It is really anecdotal to say that teachers should not get angry with students, otherwise they have no cultivation and no moral character.This student is at least an adult in his twenties, not a middle school student. If he violated someone first, why can't others protest?Lu Xun said that some people hurt other people's teeth, and then shouted to be tolerant, otherwise they are narrow-minded.The student must know this truth, so although she feels wronged and thinks that I have been cruel to her, she will not add fuel to the fire again.Helpless, many spectators are too "righteous".

In fact, I wasn't angry that night. I sent my senior brother "Sold" to do my best, and I didn't need a reply from my senior brother.The senior brother didn't answer me either, it's a trivial matter.When I was a graduate student, my supervisor also asked his younger brother to guide me.I am a pedantic person, if you teach me for one day, you will practice the gift of a disciple for the rest of your life.Even if the academic views are different later, they will go in the water, and in the fire.I sent the letter to the blog, concealing the real body and phone numbers of my seniors and students, just to discuss phone etiquette, and of course I also want to see if the little stubborn masters who hunker down on my blog every day take the opportunity again Come out and make waves.Sure enough, this letter of apology was a good one. Those few passers-by who loved me and often changed their names quickly seized the opportunity to jump out and greatly increased my click rate.For a while, the dark wind howled, the turbid waves emptied, and there was a tendency to flatten Sina and stop the rotation of the earth.It looks like it's real.The passers-by guys are so excited, clamoring about things, and rushing north and south, thinking that this blog is about to be collapsed by them, forgetting my previous week's "Is life at rest?" "In the article, their dignity has been described.They thought I had no time first, and cherished feathers second, so they had to let them "administer justice" here.Don't know I've never been intimidated by the "professor", "celebrity" and the like.I was "narrow-minded" like Lu Xun. I killed dogs when I saw dogs, and killed pigs when I saw pigs.But I can't compare with Lu Xun. I don't regard my brothers as enemies, but as players in the game. When there is no opponent, thank you for accompanying me to find some fun.It's good that you don't dare to reveal your real body, it's easier to feed me.What kind of vicious and vicious moves can be used one by one regardless of personality, I get exercise, and the masses get appreciation.Among them, the "backbone passerby", I really appreciate you, you are a sensible person, you know the ins and outs of things, you know in your heart, Beijing dialect - pretend to be confused when you understand.You read a lot, but you deliberately destroy people for fun.People say east, but you have to say west, in fact, you may not agree with west.Your debates with the Vietnam War and others started off pretty good, but then you messed up your marksmanship.Sometimes the atmosphere is warm, and you say a few words that are very popular, but the mood is always not smooth.However, when Wang Xuan just passed away, you posted such words that slandered Wang Xuan's personality. I thought it was a game.I believe that you have no specific enmity with me or Wang Xuan, but you are worried that the people will be deceived, and you have a heroic impulse to expose class enemies.But haste makes waste. You should be more calm and calm, let the class enemies be fully exposed, don't startle the snake, and trust the final judgment of the people.It is not a skill for a person to be unconventional in everything, to fight against others, and to try to attract others' attention with "hate".Of course, you still have certain abilities. You are ruthless, hard-working, and have a lot of eyes. You should use this ability to do something dedicated and let many people thank you. This is a hero, and you have not let yourself down. talent.

But I also think that your long-term insistence on practicing on my blog is very valuable.Otherwise, the voices would all be praising me, as well as the voices of each playing 50 big boards, which would be rather boring.So I hope, paradoxically, that your kung fu will be stronger, and the entire blogging world—starting with Sina, will be more lively.At that time, the insidiousness in your body will not break out from time to time, and you can practice a kind of decent kung fu in a healthy and happy manner. This letter of apology has aroused the attention of so many friends online and offline, and the number of clicks on Dongbo Academy has increased greatly. I am really ashamed.There are more than ten pages of comments, and I admit that I haven't read them carefully. If what I said is inappropriate, please sincerely criticize or insult insincerely.The name I gave to the blog is "the living room that learns from others' strengths". I really don't care if I am a little wild here.The analogy I give to the blog is a "cultural farmers market", why should it be so clean?Horse-drawn carriages, donkey carts, and cars compete with each other, how lively it is.

Let's get down to business, whoever has materials on telephone etiquette can post some for learning.In addition, we have already started school at Peking University, and I may only come to blog once every few days.Please forgive me for any unanswered messages or poor answers.I proposed to Sina.com: Don’t be so stingy. When my hits reach one million, you will pay for a Dongbo Academy dinner in Tiananmen Square. Is that okay?A bowl of sliced ​​noodles per person is enough. Sina.com hasn’t given me an answer yet, so let’s call their customer service together, and replace them with new ones, just like the song in "Red Lantern": "The grandparents and grandchildren can't beat the wolves if they beat them down. Never leave the battlefield!"