Chapter 57 Have you changed your diaper yet?

Before the son went out, he stopped suddenly, raised his eyes and asked, "Have you changed your diaper?" In front of my grandparents, father and nanny, I replied very calmly: "It's changed." My son took my hand and said, "Let's go!" The son is a worrying life, he takes care of the world and takes care of his parents.I was not allowed to close the door when I went to the toilet. When I closed the door, I cried and cried. I stubbornly believed that I would be flushed away by the water in the toilet, and I had to be under his supervision when I went to the toilet.Since he suffered from mother's claustrophobia when going to the toilet, I basically never closed the door of the toilet.He would walk into the toilet without shame, tore off a circle of paper, stuffed it into my hand and said, "Mom wipe!"

I have educated him and told him that going to the toilet is a very private matter, and men and women are not close to each other, so it is best not to watch, otherwise I will feel nervous and it will not be easy to release the pressure.He didn't listen, and asked me plausibly: "Then why do you adults watch me when I go to the toilet?" This, this... I am at a loss for words, but I am really afraid that he will fall into the toilet, so I have to wait and salvage. According to the principle of fairness, I can only reluctantly agree that he will not leave me a secret space.I have a sauna hut in my toilet, and he likes to climb up and down in it at this time.I have seen the child grow up, from being a toddler and unable to climb in, to now he can use the fence as a swing set, and he hangs on it like a little monkey.

One day, I visited during my menstruation to lay the PAD.He suddenly stood in front of me, which made me very embarrassed, but he comforted me very empathetically: "Did you pee wet? It's okay, I would do it when I was young." Pay attention to the words they use.People don't need to use "I was a child" in the past, in the past, which means that people are now adults, and there is basically no situation.Shame on my mother! Since then, he will remind me from time to time: "Have you changed your diaper?" As not long ago, I whispered in his ear: "Do you want to pee?" Time changes like this, maybe not many years later , I was really lying on the bed like this, he whispered in my ear, do you want to change the diaper?Like I took care of him all those years ago.God!Hope I don't get old so fast!

Sons are born naturally. I say he grows naturally because I am very happy every day when he grows up, and I never worry about it, nor urge him, force him to let him grow up hard.My son can sit for more than a month later than other children, and the teething is even more late, and the first tooth just came out at 11 months.Maybe I have seen too many children, I have never worried that he will not be able to sit up in elementary school (only he may not be able to sit up), and he will be toothless in his prime.I have not trained him to defecate, because I have read many books on the development and growth of young children. Every child's brain controls the sphincter function.

I especially enjoy the penguin form in which the child walks around the urinal and swings. When I see it, I want to bite someone's buttocks.I don't mind having the occasional kid wear his tiny diaper until that part of his brain is fully developed.I have read some information that training those underdeveloped children to learn to control is actually a very painful process for children, as if leaving them in the dark and letting them face the fear of the night alone. Occasionally, one day, I said that he didn't want to wear diapers because he was an older child, as I expected. I believe that one day I will ask myself to have a room by myself, because he is a big guy.

All I need to do is to give him enough time and space to wait for him to grow up on his own.I'm trying to enjoy being close to him while he's young.The person who hugs and kisses him in the future is definitely not me. If I were a melon farmer, I must be a lazy melon farmer, relying on the sky to harvest. Occasionally have a bad habit, like biting people.This habit follows me.My mother said that I had no friends when I was young, because I bit them away.No wonder I am always lonely in my heart, and I am used to being alone. I don't want my son to be as unpopular as I am, loving someone but misrepresenting it.According to my mother, the more I like someone, the harder I bite.

Occasionally, when I was playing hide and seek with me, my toe was bitten and swollen, and I shed tears in pain.I grabbed his little foot and bit it back like that. There were two deep teeth marks on his toes, which made me cry in pain.I told Oud: "Bitting like this is heavy, and others will hurt. If you like him, just bite lightly, like this." I gently rubbed his fingers with my teeth. Now, I occasionally play games with me again, and he still bites me, but he grabs my finger very carefully, puts it in his mouth gently, and asks while biting: "Is it so light? "I hugged his head lovingly and kissed it.

He drew inspiration from my viciousness, and suddenly realized that day: "Mom, I know why the doctor uses a stick when looking at the mouth!" I asked strangely: "Why?" "Because he is afraid that I will bite his finger!" i laughed!Love this little guy!