Chapter 25 Two big men talk about children (37 weeks)

Men's love for children is no less than that of women, sometimes even more. Yesterday Labour's high school friends were in Singapore for a meeting and came over to see our home in the evening for a potluck. I haven't seen him in N years, it seems that he is still the same him many years ago. I have seen the scenes where these two people brag and fart before.At first, it seemed that he was always talking about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, which seemed particularly romantic. (I can only call it Zhou Dang instead of suave. Even if I am a layman, I can tell that their level of conversation is not much higher than mine.) Later, they all cheated their girlfriends and started talking about Yuanda. ambition; and later they were married for many years, and when they met, they talked about the shackles of marriage with sympathy.When I met him two years ago, I was probably at the bottom of my marriage. After a long time of marriage, all the freshness that should be there has passed, and there have been no major changes. The idea of ​​changing the way of life always pops up when I talk, and for The wife complained slightly.

Last year he got a baby girl.When we met this time, as soon as my butt was firmly seated, I immediately took out my daughter's small pieces to show off.God!Shocked as a little fairy, she is completely different from the big fat girl when she was just born, she is so beautiful, it really fulfills the saying about the Eighteen Changes of the Female University.Speaking of his wife, he was full of praise, she was gentle, considerate and kind, as if he had changed his wife from a girl.The family becomes a solid stainless steel triangle. Then that complacent father began to instill in us the Heart Sutra of Parenting and the "Dafa of Subduing Demons".Those two big men, leaning back on the sofa, boasting like crazy, turned out to be little kids.It was the first time that my laborers were so fascinated. They not only listened carefully, but also asked questions. I wish I could take notes.

The two old ladies on the side were upset.Because the little fart boy is slandering the old revolution. "Don't let the old man take care of the child! It's spoiled. When you cry, you hug it up, and the result is to cry when you let it go. When the child cries, let her cry, smile at her, and play some music." My labor nodded in agreement. My old lady next to me was not happy when she heard it: "What are you talking about! The little hairy child is so small, just when he needs love and care, how can he keep crying? Besides, his family is a girl, which is different from mine. My family is a boy baby. You can’t cry all the time, you’ll have to have an operation if you cry so badly!”

I was caught in the middle and didn't know who to listen to.There is also truth here, and there is no falsehood there. "My old mother-in-law only stayed at my house for a month before she was kicked away by my wife. I can't understand the way she raises children. The old way, empirical. We all read the tapes, the new way, dogmatic. " My old lady was not happy again: "I tell you! If you don't listen to me, tell me as soon as possible, lest I be annoying to you! I'll pack up and leave." well!People talk about other people's mothers, my mother really has seven openings and rich associations, and she is still like a forest hairtail at such an old age.

As soon as the exchange of experiences and treasures between the laborers and their friends was over, they poured some wine at the dinner table and fantasized about the benefits that the children would bring to their father when they grew up. Feeling!After more than ten years of journey, seeing that group of young boys, now the pillars of the family, and then to the tender and sweet dad, this is such a big change. The laborer had already made up his mind, and after seeing off his friend, he said to me: "Today's meeting was very fruitful! It has benefited a lot! From now on, leave the child to me! Leave it alone! You can't handle it well if you delegate power to you!"

OK, OK!I am happy and at ease.