Chapter 12 Practical strategy (16 weeks)

Chen's mother is 31 years old this year, and she has not strictly used contraception for 3 and a half years before, but failed. Many older couples with stable jobs want to conceive, and they have tried for a long time, but they can’t get any results. Everyone is very frustrated. When they heard the good news, they came to inquire whether there were any visions that night, such as thunder and lightning. Flash, a white light in the room. Chen's father and Chen's mother's conception conditions were not very good, and they were obtained when the doctor basically sentenced them to death.Last year, when he went back to China for an inspection, Dad Chen got a score out of 10 because of his excessive smoking, staying up too late and using the computer too much, and his sperm quality was quite low.The doctor said that if you don't change your bad habits, it will be difficult to have a baby.

Therefore, it is normal not to be pregnant with Chen's mother, and pregnancy is an unexpected joy.Chen's father and Chen's mother have no mental pressure.Especially Chen's mother, who has long embraced the idea of ​​having no children in this life, if she has no children, she will be gone! When she first didn't know about Father Chen's situation, Mother Chen, like many sisters who were eager to get pregnant, secretly took her basal body temperature every month.After fighting for half a year, I finally gave up.Because this process is very painful, always spent in hope and disappointment, the process of a month is extremely long, and the calculation of the beginning of each month is no longer from the 1st to the 31st, but from the first day of the menstrual holiday.After a long time, I feel that it is wrong to say that one sows one harvest.

In addition, because there are pictures, * becomes not so beautiful.Every time I have selfish thoughts, what posture should I use to hit it?What should be easy to hit?Gathering information everywhere, such as raising your legs up to the sky after sex, etc., is actually not very useful. Thinking about it now, it is easier to conceive when people are not prepared and their minds are relaxed.The more you ask for it, the more you can't get it.When you feel dispensable and enjoy life to the fullest, the child comes instead. If you travel purposefully to get pregnant, you will not be able to enjoy the fun of travel, and you will spend money, and your child will not be successful, which is even more frustrating.On the point of having children, the disadvantages of utilitarianism are particularly evident.

Another point that is very important is the state of the man and not the state of the woman. It is very difficult for a man to conceive if he is under pressure.A few friends told me that my husband’s work is very busy, and he really wants to have children. Under the pressure from both sides, he has worked hard for several years, but now he is afraid of death.Relieve your husband's stress.If the wife does not show a particularly strong desire to have a child, her attitude is very relaxed, and she is not neurotic and always checks to see if her period is coming, always checks the test paper, always mutters why she hasn't, and always shows hope to disappointment During the depression process, the husband's mentality will be relaxed.

Balanced nutrition is critical for couples of childbearing age.In the past, Father Chen ate very irregularly. He only ate when he was hungry, and he didn't eat when he was not hungry.I think most of the credit for this pregnancy should go to Grandma Chen.She lived here for a while, and prepared three regular meals for Chen's father every day, including meat and vegetables, and no junk food. In fact, if you think about it, whether you have children is not the whole life of a person in this life.It is a joy to have, but it is easy to have nothing.I really have a child, but I can't stop worrying about it, and I can't stop being tired.I really like children, hugging and raising one is like kissing.As long as you brought it up with your own hands, does it matter if you pretended to be in your stomach?Kittens and puppies still have feelings when they grow up!Let alone children?

In the past, many couples were unable to seek a child, and in the end they gave up hope and took the child. Their thoughts were not burdened, and instead they kept having fun. This is the reason.When you are mentally disarmed, maybe you get the whole world.