Chapter 49 I do not know what to do

Going home at noon today, I accidentally found a note from Feiliu on the coffee table, which was as long as a letter.Because it's all in capital letters, it's hard for me to read.My ability to read English is limited to print.Because the letters are all emails, and the articles I read are all in books, I am not used to handwriting.After reading it, I couldn't help shaking my head, laughing, and sighing again. Her gist was: I'm sorry for not being able to do all my work, especially COOKING.I know I made a lot of mistakes, please forgive me.Whenever I do something wrong, I am so scared, but you are always very kind and comfort me, let me not worry.I love my baby like I love my own brother, sir, madam, whenever I make a mistake, I really want to cry, but you don't talk about me, it makes me feel panic.Please, please be sure to criticize me when I make mistakes so that I don't get scared.

After reading it, I was really surprised, thinking that many suggestions from people around the labor force seemed to make sense. Most of the evaluations of local Singaporeans on Filipino nannies are lazy, greedy, bad, and difficult to manage, so they treat servants as harshly and ruthlessly as landlords treat slaves.Only in this way, they will be afraid of you, obey you, respect you, and dare not do bad things. And my opinion of Filipino maids is so different.I think these Filipino maids are hard-working, kind, gentle, and responsible, which makes me feel ashamed.Many times, I regard Filipino maids as professionals.This is definitely not my pretentious posture, pretending to be charitable, but that I am really not good at housekeeping. In terms of housework, my IQ is equivalent to that of a child.

The laborer also said yesterday that when the child grows up, the house will not be so crowded.I said, what do you mean?He said that when the child grows up, he won't throw things away, and he will clean up by himself, and then we won't need a nanny. My tears flow silently in my heart.How scared I am that Chen Ou's baby will grow up!My blessing and happiness today are all brought to me by his coming.I really don't want to do the housework by myself after he goes to school.Then I will die early.The days are gray.Moreover, even if the baby grows up and he doesn't litter anymore, will I change it and stop littering?That day my mother-in-law also pointed to my son and said: "Train you from an early age, put things back in their original places, and one mother is enough in the family. If there is another one, grandma will be exhausted."

Even thick-skinned, pretend not to hear. The arrival of Fei made me completely relieved.I have no dissatisfaction with her, to be exact, 100% satisfaction, I never order her to do anything, I don't care how she likes to arrange the work.Even if she didn't clean the windows for a year, I had a record of not cleaning them for five years before she was there. I won't find fault with her.I'm fine with what she does.Even many times, I will take the initiative to please her, for example, let her eat before me, or take the initiative to serve her the meal in front of her and serve her.This is a kind of gratitude I have for her. I feel that compared with her working from six o'clock in the morning to eleven o'clock in the evening, my labor is nothing.

She just came to my house, it was her birthday.I don't know what gift to give her, but considering the actual situation of her family, I think giving money is the most appropriate.I gave her ten quick pocket money, and she hugged me excitedly, which made me very embarrassed.In fact, ten yuan is NOTHING to me, but it is very important to her. After she came, she broke a pot lid, and there seemed to be some minor incidents.I don't remember much.Every time she stood in front of me and apologized as if she had made a big mistake, I didn't care at all.I think that if I do it, I may not be better than her, and I might make more mistakes.It is absolutely correct to say that you do more than you do and make more mistakes.If you can't avoid your own mistakes, why blame others?

During the six months of her probationary period, she didn't have a day off. I told her that after the Chinese New Year, I would give her a day off to meet relatives.Her eyes filled with tears again, which really scared me. That day she took the baby down to play, and the laborer went down to watch after a while, and found her chatting with other servants, and came back to complain to me, asking me to teach her a lesson.I rolled my eyes and asked, "You still read the web at work! You still call me at work! Your colleagues at work are still chatting! Is your boss at a loss?" The laborer said, "She was so excited about the conversation that she didn't look at her son, what if she fell down?"

I replied: "Which child doesn't fall? As long as it's not a serious problem, you don't have to worry about touching the skin. When you looked at it yourself, didn't your son drop the back of his head? What did I say to you?" The laborer said that there are not many people who treat the nanny like our family.She can watch TV and eat whatever she wants. (I took the nanny out that day. The nanny said she wanted to eat curry. I hugged my son and took her around to help her find it. The laborer said, there is no such thing, and she should order what she eats. I said that it is rare for others to come out Have a meal, why are you abusing others and eating what you don’t like?) We never ask her to take care of us, we never let her make a cup of tea, and do everything by myself. Where can she find such a good life?

I also thought it would be good for her! I didn't know it would come out today. From the looks of it, an employer who is too kind makes the servants at a loss.Maybe they are used to looking at people's faces, and when they see me smiling all day long, they think that I have a tigerish face, and they are afraid that I will fire her one day. 2007-02-08