Chapter 9 Chapter 9 Thick black is the essence of life

Now we can draw a conclusion: the so-called thick and black are just the evaluation of the life attitude and way of doing things of people with high goals in life by people with low goals in life. Take Han Gaozu Liu Bang as an example. He was so cruel that he was able to disregard the life and death of his father, wife and children. This is a cruel behavior that is difficult for ordinary people to accept.The reason why ordinary people think Liu Bang is cruel is because ordinary people have no ambition to seize the world.Once there are people with the same ambitions as Liu Bang, the evaluation of Liu Bang will become positive, and many cold-blooded behaviors will become logical, understandable, and understandable.

Look at Liu Bei's thick blackness again. When Lu Bu was captured and told him about his old feelings, and begged him to intercede in front of Cao Cao, Liu Bei agreed well and nodded again and again. When Cao Cao was about to release Lu Bu, Liu Bei suddenly objected. Opinion: I don't see the matter of Ding Jianyang and Dong Zhuo... Strongly urge Cao Cao to kill Lu Bu.This kind of duplicity and duplicitous demeanor can gain the approval of the world only because everyone knows Liu Bei's goal in life - he aspires to be emperor, such a lofty ideal of life, killing a little Lu Bu, What is it?

From this we know that everyone has their own goals in life, and all life attitudes and means that are under this goal are thick and black that can be forgiven by others.On the contrary, if it exceeds this goal, your thick black will become meaningless and unacceptable. From the picture above, we can see that the realm of thick and dark varies from person to person, especially it is directly related to a person's life goals and achievements.If your goals in life are not high and your achievements in life are not great, then no matter how cautious you are, you will not be able to escape the reputation of blackness and unfounded accusations.

On the contrary, big people have privileges in this world, and if small people do the same thing, it is shameful and low-quality.But the big man did, at worst, a celebrity anecdote, an affair.The reason is that the public knows that the life goal of the big man is beyond their own reach, and that the big man has a wider choice power, so they have a tolerant attitude towards the absurd behavior of the big man, but they are extremely strict with the little man. . But for most of the public, there is no lofty goal in life. One mu of land, two cows, wives and children on the kang, this is the pursuit of most of us.So no matter who you are, as long as you hope to achieve something in life, you will inevitably exceed the tolerance limit of ordinary people and enter the thick and dark ranks.

Great people are not born big people, so almost all big people will inevitably be ridiculed by the public at the beginning of their struggle in life.Take Chen Sheng as an example. He was just a farmer in his earliest days. He worked hard every day with his face on the loess and his back on the ground.But Chen Sheng was unwilling to just bury his life like this, so once, he said passionately to the farmers: "If you are rich, don't forget each other." When someone of us becomes rich one day, don't forget Poor friends now. Chen Sheng's words aroused ridicule from the farmers. In desperation, Chen Sheng had no choice but to laugh at himself and said: "How can a sparrow know the ambition of a swan?"

At that time, Chen Sheng said such things with his identity as a mud-legged person, so he could only be regarded as a big talker and a dark person. Chen Sheng is not the only one. Every great person in the world who has made a career will inevitably be ridiculed by others at the beginning of their career. No matter what you say or do, you will be criticized by people who don’t understand you It is thick black.Su Qin's career was unfinished, so he had to hang his head on the beam at home. When he was studying hard, his behavior was tantamount to cheeky in the eyes of his family.An imposing five-foot man, instead of farming in the fields or feeding the pigs in the pen, he just begs for nothing, idles around and eats. This kind of behavior is not thick and black, what else can it be?

Therefore, thick black is a necessary condition for success in life. If you want to succeed, it is absolutely impossible not to thick black.But if there is only thick black, but the thick black is unlawful, it will be like Dong Zhuo, Lu Bu and Yuan Tan. Then it's not worth it. The basic law of thick black can be simply expressed as the following three points: First, thick black is a means, not an end. Second, the practical value of thick black is directly proportional to the goal of life.The more long-term and ambitious the goal of life, the higher the value of thick black.On the contrary, the thick and dark actions of short-sighted people will be despised by others.

Third, no matter whether you are willing to accept it or not, when you start toward your ideal life, you have to face a dark age in your life, otherwise you will not be able to deal with the negativity and negative evaluations aimed at you. Regarding the first key point of the thick black school system, we have already discussed in detail above, but we still need to make some basic supplements regarding the latter two points. Let's first talk about the relationship between thick black and life goals. Liu Bei in the Three Kingdoms era can be regarded as the most perfect model.There is an old saying: Liu Bei borrowed Jingzhou, but he never paid back.This sentence refers to Liu Bei being chased by Cao Cao and fleeing in a hurry. At the end of his life, he had to ask Sun Quan's men and horses in Jiangdong for support, and promised that once Cao Cao was defeated, the land of Jingzhou would be occupied by Sun Quan.But after defeating Cao Cao, Liu Bei took the first step and occupied Jingzhou, so Soochow sent envoys to ask for it. At this time, Liu Bei's thick skin came in handy.He didn't say pay it back, and he didn't say he wouldn't pay it back. He procrastinated and coyed like this, which finally made Soochow so angry that he jumped over the wall in a hurry, and simply killed Guan Yu and took back the land of Jingzhou.

Ordinary people, even if they owe their neighbors two or two meters of noodles, will feel ashamed when they are questioned.However, this Liu Bei is born with extraordinary talents, and Jingzhou, who is so big because of his family, has no sense of guilt at all. In the end, it is because his ambition is too lofty. His ideal in life is not to be settled in Xishu, and he wants to own the world. , compared with the world, what is Jingzhou worth? What's more, Liu Bei has a reputation as a benevolent king in history. He is not as short-sighted as Lu Bu, nor as cruel and innocent as Dong Zhuo.As far as the people are concerned, if they can choose the emperor, then they would rather choose Liu Bei.Therefore, the people can forgive all Liu Bei's thick and dark actions.

From this we can find that Liu Bei's thick black falls within the realm of sexual goodness as much as possible. Although he is thick black, his thick black is a kind thick black, so his thick black suddenly becomes cute stand up. However, Lv Bu's thick black and Dong Zhuo's thick black are completely evil, a kind of evil thick black, a brutal thick black, and a thick black that is destined to lose the support of the people. Combined with the third rule of thick black school - whether you are willing to accept it or not, when you start towards your ideal life, you must face a thick dark age in life, otherwise you will not be able to deal with those who are against you negativity and negative evaluation.From this we can draw the most complete conclusion:

First, if you want to achieve success in life, then you must embark on the thick and dark road. Second, there are two roads to thick black, one is good thick black, and the other is evil thick black.If you are walking the kind and thick black road, then congratulations, you will succeed soon.On the contrary, if you accidentally stray into the evil way, then not only will you not succeed, but you will lose your reputation and make others laugh.