Chapter 91 The ninetieth quarreling female patroness

There is an elementary school in Miao Town. In the past few years, the quality of teaching in the school was not very good.The townspeople all said that the students who graduate here often lag behind after going to secondary schools in other places. The principal of the primary school was very troubled by this, so he applied for support from the township, intending to recruit some high-level teachers from the normal school to improve the quality of the school as a whole. In this way, Wu benefactor, who graduated from the Provincial Normal University, was recruited into the school.According to people who know Donor Wu, Donor Wu was a top student in her class when she was in school, and it was impossible for her to easily enter the township primary school to teach. The current employment environment is indeed not good, so Wu benefactor came to the town to teach.

Facts have proved that the principal has good eyesight, benefactor Wu has good eloquence and innovative teaching methods, and the students who have been taught by benefactor Wu have all responded well to her. Donor Wu is highly valued in school, and everyone predicted that Donor Wu will have a very good development in the future. Benefactor Wu is not only good at teaching, but also has a good character and is very enthusiastic about people. If there is anything to ask her for help, she will definitely do her best.Of course, Benefactor Wu also has shortcomings. For example, she has a straight temper and a bad temper. When she sees something wrong with others, even if it has nothing to do with her, she will immediately go forward to correct it. Because of this, many people in the town Both had quarreled with Benefactor Wu.

Regarding the tense interpersonal relationship, Donor Wu is also very depressed, because it is not only those who have done wrong things who quarrel with Donor Wu, and sometimes even those who have been helped by Donor Wu do not accept her favor. One day, benefactor Wu had another argument with the townspeople. During the argument, the other party asked benefactor Wu to review his behavior.When Donor Wu returned home, she felt that something was wrong. She began to reflect on whether she had done something wrong.But the whole night, the female benefactor carefully thought about what happened during this period, and felt that everything she did was correct, and she couldn't find anything wrong.

For this reason, Benefactor Wu went up to the mountain to ask Master Zhiyuan for advice. She told Master Zhiyuan about some recent things, and asked Master Zhiyuan whether her point of view was correct every time she said something. Master Zhiyuan nodded as he listened, agreeing with all the viewpoints of Benefactor Wu. Benefactor Wu felt more and more innocent. Master Zhiyuan said at this time: Although your thoughts on everything are correct, there is a big problem with the way you handle things.Advice that does not know how to take into account other people's self-esteem, no matter how much you do and how well you say it, is useless.In our daily life, it is not enough to have correct opinions. If we do not know how to express our opinions with humility, these opinions will be difficult to be accepted by others.

Master Zhiyuan's words made Donor Wu thoughtful. After leaving the temple, she paid a little attention to the way she spoke when communicating with people, and her relationship with the townspeople gradually improved.