Chapter 94 Ninety-third least practical donation

A friend Jie Chen met on the Internet said that she took her son to watch the news and told him that the children in the disaster area had no clothes to wear, no milk powder to drink, and no food to eat.Then her son said worriedly that the children in the disaster area have no toys to play with!He wants to donate his toys. When he heard it, Jie An felt that the child was a little silly, the toy could neither quench his thirst nor be eaten as a meal, so what's the use of giving it away?But soon I found out that I was wrong, because children have a different way of thinking from adults. In their minds, toys are the most precious between money and toys. The toy was far more valuable than the two hundred lucky money that was actually donated later.

Jie Chen wants to say that the donation that seems most inappropriate in this disaster just contains the sincerity that is most needed in the donation. When a disaster strikes, materials are very important, because they are the food, medicine and guarantee of life for the victims in the future. However, when materials are helpless, no amount of money can keep the shadow of the dead. There is another thing that is also very important, and that is sincerity. An entrepreneur donated 2 million and was scolded by others. Many people think he should donate more. We have no reason to criticize it purely from the material. No matter how much he paid, he gave it. We should be grateful accept.

However, this entrepreneur is still wrong. His mistake lies in his explanation of why he donated two million yuan. It is an explanation composed of many reasonable viewpoints, but it has hurt many people spiritually. Sometimes in the face of difficulties, what we need is not only material, but also warmth. Too calm and rational explanations become the fuse of emotional loss. On the way, we threw one yuan to the beggar arrogantly, and we paid it, which is of course commendable, but at the same time we paid back something, that is the dignity of the beggar. Since you are determined to give alms, why bother with a smile?

Some people are distressed, so they curse, but what is in the curse?Have sincerity.We feel sorry for our powerlessness, and hope that capable people can take on the responsibility. We are eager to give our sincerity, and want to get more food and clothing for the homeless.But we are also at fault, because at the same time as the abuse, we also did not pay attention to the dignity of others. Maybe we have forgotten that there is a lack of sincerity in the material things that are forced. Maybe we have forgotten that we are hurting other hearts, and we even accidentally hurt a lot of sincerity that we have paid.

Can we really get what we want from abuse?Maybe not. Is there really no better way to live out your heart?Maybe we just forgot to look for it. We are refuting, refuting those who question, refuting those who abuse, rebuking them for not knowing how to be grateful, rebuking them for only knowing how to abuse, but we are also making mistakes, we have found the mistakes of others, and we have forgotten that we are also making mistakes. We also ignore the sincerity of others. There is nothing in the world that must be done by accentuating the voice. The quieter you speak, the more people are willing to listen to you, and we will be closer.

Those who leave have no pain, and all that is left is left to us. We need to use time and heart to resolve this pain, instead of freezing them in the bottom of our hearts with cold.