Chapter 34 Thirty-third impolite Dr. May

The health center in the small town where Jie Chen lives is very small, and there are only four doctors in it. Except Dr. Sha, who Jie Chen is familiar with, is a male doctor, the other three are female doctors.Among the three female doctors, Dr. Mei is the youngest, who has only worked for a few years, while Dr. Xiao is the oldest, who is about to retire. Now, Dr. Xiao and Dr. Mei are as good as a pair of mother and daughter. They get off work and go shopping together, and they are very close.But in the past few years, the relationship between the two doctors was extremely tense. The conflict between the two started from the day when Dr. Mei first reported to the town health center.Dr. Mei is a foreigner, and found a job in Miao Town after graduation.When Dr. Mei came here, he was alone, and he was not familiar with the local geographical environment. When he went to report to the unit, he naturally asked for directions while looking for the location of the town health center.Coincidentally, the first person Dr. Mei met in the small town was Dr. Xiao. The two met at the intersection. The first thing Dr. Mei said when he saw Dr. Xiao was: "Old woman, how about the town health center?" Go?" Hearing Dr. Mei's question, Dr. Xiao was very annoyed. Regardless of his age, Dr. Xiao is twenty or thirty years older than Dr. Mei. But he used a word that is very disrespectful to describe the elders - "old woman".

Dr. Xiao had a very bad impression of Dr. Mei. He knew that Dr. Mei was going to his own unit, so he didn't bother to ask her what she was doing.However, Dr. Xiao held back his anger and told Dr. Mei the location of the health center.After Dr. Mei went to work, in such a small health center, the two doctors still had to get along with each other inevitably.During the first few months of Dr. Mei's work, Dr. Xiao didn't talk to her too much. He always felt that it would be better not to provoke such an impolite little girl. Dr. Mei had just arrived here, so she didn't know the reason, and thought that Dr. Xiao's natural disposition was not talkative, so it was not good for him to strike up a conversation rashly.So there was a lukewarm stalemate between the two of them.The relationship between the two became harmonious, and it was several months later.Because Dr. Xiao slowly discovered that Dr. Mei is not a rude person, at least he is usually polite to patients and himself.

Dr. Xiao had doubts in his heart, and after further research, he found that the word "old woman" is a kind of respectful title in Dr. Mei's hometown dialect, which means "old man".After the two reconciled, Dr. Xiao often took this matter as a joke. She said that there are so many strange things in the world, and a curse in one place is a respectful name in another. After Jie Chen heard about this incident, he also found it quite interesting.Jie Chen even thought that if the ancient Chinese defined "get off" as "hello", then every morning, when the donors went to work, they would definitely say "get off" to everyone with a smile on their faces.

At different times and in different contexts, the same thing will be elicited with many different meanings, both positive and negative, and in the end it will also cause us to have many different emotions.That is to say, whether our attitude towards certain things is angry or happy does not lie in the things themselves, but depends entirely on our evaluation of things.In fact, quite a lot of contradictions between people also stem from the differences in the way different people evaluate things. When we know how to broaden our minds and not simply judge the behavior of others based on our own understanding and tolerance, perhaps many "intolerable" behaviors that cause us disputes will not be so intolerable , and those negative emotions will naturally disappear.