Chapter 22 The twenty-first unattractive Xiaowei benefactor

Jie Chen found that there are still quite a few benefactors who like to communicate with monks. For example, the donors in Miao Town often talk about the troubles they encounter in life and communicate with Jie Chen. There are many benefactors who have confided their thoughts to Jie Chen, and the content is various. The benefactors with deep spiritual connotations will ask some macro questions, such as the formation of the universe and the origin of life. And some familiar benefactors like to exchange some detailed questions, some of which are very inexplicable. I once discussed with Jie Chen how to improve Xiaohong's memory.

Relatively speaking, Jie Chen feels that macro questions are easier to answer. Anyway, there is no standard answer, and everyone just needs to keep guessing and guessing. And those detailed problems are more difficult to solve, and some problems can be solved, such as Xiaohong's sense of direction, which has finally been greatly improved under the training of Junior Brother Jieao.For other problems, there is no way to get rid of anger at all, such as the appearance of Xiaowei's benefactor in the small town. Xiaowei's benefactor is a high school student in the town, and no one cared about his appearance before. When he was in his third year of high school, he suddenly became fond of complaining to Jie Chen. He felt that he was ugly and under great psychological pressure.The benefactor Xiaowei read an article from somewhere, saying that good-looking people are more likely to succeed in their careers than ordinary-looking people. He has an ordinary appearance and average academic performance, so he is doomed to be an unsuccessful person in the future.

From the perspective of resentment, Xiaowei's benefactor's appearance is actually not as bad as he said, but his facial features are very ordinary, but they are not ugly. Later, Junior Brother Jie Ao analyzed that the problem with Xiaowei’s benefactor was that he was too contrastive, because Xiaowei’s best friend, Xiaofeng, was a well-known handsome guy among his peers, and Xiaofeng’s dressing taste was also good. Benefactor Wei and Donor Xiaofeng have always been inseparable, so it is easy to be compared to see the difference. Xiaowei’s benefactor’s question, Jie Chen, finds it difficult to solve. After all, Jie Chen is neither a master with profound magic power nor a demon monk. It is impossible to take out a pill for Xiaowei’s benefactor to eat and immediately become handsome.

All I can do to refrain from anger is to comfort Xiaowei's benefactor. Appearance itself is just a cloud, the most important thing is a sincere heart, and there is no such absolute connection between appearance and career success. It's just that Jie Chen's words, Xiaowei's benefactor didn't seem to listen too much, every time Jie Chen saw him, he was still depressed. Donor Xiaowei also worked hard to become handsome. He imitated his good friend Xiaofeng Donor everywhere, keeping the same hairstyle and wearing the same fashionable clothes.But as a result, the gap between the two became more and more obvious.

Donor Xiaowei always makes people feel weird. For example, Donor Xiaowei looks dirty when he also has long hair, while Donor Xiaofeng looks neat and fresh. For this kind of thing, there is nothing you can do about it. Some things are born, just like the parrot Xiaoqi raised in our temple. Most of its kind are colorful, but it looks like a crow no matter what. It is something we cannot change with our efforts the day after tomorrow. Apparently, Xiaowei’s benefactor is also aware of this problem. One time, Xiaowei’s benefactor complained to Junior Brother Jie Ao: “Why is there such a big gap between people? People who are dressed in similar clothes, some people laugh like angels, while others laugh like idiots? "

Junior Brother Jie Ao comforted him and said: "The key to the problem is not the appearance, but whether you care about it. You see, when I was with Senior Brother Jie Chen, didn't I also face the same problems as you and Xiaofeng's benefactor? But Jie Chen Brother is so strong, you have never seen him troubled before!" It's a pity that Xiaowei's benefactor feels that the example of Junior Brother Jieao is not representative. After all, temples are different from society, and there can be no external discrimination here. No matter how much you laugh in the temple, no one will think of discriminating against you.

Regarding Xiaowei's benefactor's confusion, Jie Chen basically gave up, and can only hope that in a few years, Xiaowei's benefactor will grow up a bit, and maybe he will become handsome.It's just that Jiechen himself also feels hopeless. After all, Xiaowei's benefactor is already seventeen or eighteen years old, and basically his appearance is unlikely to undergo major changes. The change of Xiaowei's benefactor occurred two years later.Not long ago, Jie Chen accidentally met Xiaowei's benefactor who was returning to the small town during the university vacation, and found that his appearance had changed a lot.The hair that used to be long has become short, and the style of clothes has also changed a lot, and I also wear a pair of nice sunglasses.Both Jie Chen and Jie Ao have the same feeling, that is, Xiaowei's benefactor has become more attractive and fashionable.

The benefactor Xiaowei talked about the reasons for his change. He said that when he was in college, he met a friend who knew how to make up. He said that the benefactor Xiaowei used to dress very inappropriately. Hair, and the color of clothes, for example, do not match the skin tone. Jie Chen thought carefully about Xiaowei's benefactor who was not too handsome two years ago, and suddenly realized that those clothes and outfits that were not suitable for Xiaowei's benefactor were actually borrowed from Xiaofeng's benefactor, and the same clothes were worn by Xiaofeng's benefactor. She looks good on her body.

Perhaps, there are many things in our lives like this. When we see others succeed, we will feel envious and eager to follow suit.In fact, simple imitation often fails to achieve good results, just like a beautiful ribbon tied around the neck of a benefactor is very beautiful, but if it is tied around Jiechen's neck, it will scare people. Maybe everyone has their own positioning and their own personality path. If you run along the success path of others, no matter how fast you run, you may not be able to get the prize.