Chapter 10 The ninth benefactor Xia who ran away from home

Jie Chen gets up very early every morning, usually after morning class and dinner, and then opens the gate of the temple. That morning, Jie An opened the door of the temple. He wanted to stretch his waist and take a deep breath of fresh air to welcome the arrival of the day, but when he opened the door, he found a female benefactor sitting by the door. Xia benefactor in the small town.Hearing the sound of Jie'an opening the door, Xia Benefactor turned his head to look at Jie'an, with wet tears still on his face. Under normal circumstances, Jie Chen would definitely be nervous when encountering such a situation, but after seeing that it was the benefactor Xia, Jie Chen was not too nervous.Because of this situation, it has happened several times before, and Jie Chen knew in his heart that something probably happened.

Benefactor Xia's home is in a small town, and she is about the same age as Jie Chen.A few years ago, Benefactor Xia got married, and her husband was also a resident of the town, benefactor Qin who was a few years older than Jie An.Jie Chen and Jie Ao have known Xia Shizhu and Qin Shizhu for more than ten years, so they can be regarded as very familiar friends. Benefactor Xia and Benefactor Qin are childhood sweethearts, and their relationship is also very good.It's just that there are often disputes between the two of them, and they won't give in to each other. If the quarrel is too intense, benefactor Xia will run away from home, and the place where benefactor Xia ran away from home is Tianming Temple.

Therefore, when Jie Chen saw Donor Xia sitting at the gate of Tianming Temple with a sad face, he was not nervous, not because he had no caring heart, but because he had roughly grasped the cause and effect of the matter in his heart, and even had a good understanding of the future development of the matter. There are also some judgments. Under normal circumstances, Donor Xia would first tell everyone about Donor Qin, and then ask to stay in the temple for a few days, but Donor Qin, usually in the afternoon, at the latest the next morning, will definitely find the temple , and then persuaded Master Xia to go home with kind words.

Jie Chen carefully inquired about the situation from Master Xia, and it turned out to be similar to Jie Chen's judgment.Benefactor Xia said that she was very angry this time, and she never planned to forgive Benefactor Qin again. Hearing what Benefactor Xia said, Jie Chen remained calm, because the sentence "I will never forgive Qin benefactor again" is also a line that Xia benefactor would say every time he came. Jie An had heard this sentence countless times. The next day, I saw the two walking side by side in the small town talking and laughing.It is basically certain that Xia benefactor said this sentence to express his anger, not to really implement it.

Benefactor Xia stayed in the temple like this, and while chatting with everyone, he also helped everyone with some work, and it seemed that his mood improved a lot.Jie Chen reckoned that when benefactor Qin came this time, he shouldn't have to waste much time talking, benefactor Xia would pretend to be angry at most, and he would probably go home with him. It's just that everyone waited until the afternoon, and the benefactor Qin didn't come up the mountain.Jie Ao comforted Xia benefactor and said, Qin benefactor may be afraid that you will be angry, and wants to pick you up after your anger subsides.Regarding this explanation, Xia benefactor was noncommittal, but it seemed that he accepted it.

In this way, Xia benefactor stayed in the temple for one night, but the next day, Qin benefactor still did not come. This kind of situation has never happened before.Benefactor Qin never came to pick up Benefactor Xia for more than twenty-four hours after the quarrel, and Tianming Temple was the only designated place for Benefactor Xia to run away from home. It is absolutely impossible for Benefactor Qin to find a place.Jie Chen felt that the only thing that could be explained at the moment was that benefactor Qin was also angry this time, so benefactor Xia was left alone outside, and he was ruthless not to come to her.

Jieao analyzed that, with Qin's benefactor's open-minded character, he hadn't come to the temple for such a long time, and this time things might be really troublesome. Jie Chen was disturbed by Jie Ao's words.While Xia benefactor is calm on the surface, but he may not be in a good mood.Because Jie Chen discovered that Xia benefactor was absent-minded when she accompanied everyone to pick vegetables in the yard. She looked at the vegetable garden blankly, then threw the picked vegetable leaves on the ground, and put the vegetable roots and rotten leaves in the pot.Jie Chen saw her devastated, but did not dare to correct her behavior.

On the third day, Junior Brother Jie Ao carefully tested Master Xia.Junior Brother Jie Ao said, if you don't wait until you go down the mountain, let's go find Donor Qin and tell him about Donor Xia in the temple. As a result, Benefactor Xia did not allow Junior Brother Jie Ao to go to Benefactor Qin, and Benefactor Xia became angry when he heard Benefactor Qin's name. She said that even if he came up the mountain now, she would beat him down with a broom. Seeing Benefactor Xia's resolute attitude, Jie Ao didn't dare to talk about going to Benefactor Qin anymore.That day, Benefactor Xia was in a very bad state, sitting alone in the yard in a daze.Everyone was afraid that she would not be able to think about it alone, so they went to talk to her when they had free time.Benefactor Xia began to cry after chatting a few words.

It was already noon on the fourth day when benefactor Qin came to find benefactor Xia.Benefactor Xia shut the door of Benefactor Qin. From Benefactor Qin's explanation, everyone finally understood what happened.It turned out that the past few days, benefactor Qin didn't want to neglect benefactor Xia, but went on a business trip to another place. Benefactor Qin told Jie An aggrievedly that he quarreled with Benefactor Xia that night, and as a result Xia Shizhu left the house without saying a word the next morning.Benefactor Qin said that when he woke up in the morning, he didn't see Benefactor Xia, and thought she had gone shopping for groceries, but just as the unit requested a business trip, he left a note and left first.

Jie Chen and Jie Ao glanced at each other, thinking that a few days ago we were worried about a relationship crisis between Qin Benefactor and Xia Benefactor. It turned out that this "crisis" was not that serious, but a misunderstanding caused by a small episode. Only then did Jie Chen know that in the past few days, benefactor Xia had been sad and angry because of benefactor Qin's behavior.But benefactor Qin, who is on a business trip, may be in a good mood and has not been disturbed at all. Speaking of which, negative emotions may already be a very common thing for us.We often use negative emotions such as anger, sadness, and depression to express our disgust towards others, but in fact, this is just a way to affect others by hurting ourselves.

When we are angry and sad, we often forget that it is unknown whether our negative emotions can actually punish others, but it is certain that they hurt ourselves.Therefore, restraining one's negative emotions is the greatest protection for oneself, not entirely for the sake of others. That day, when benefactor Qin and benefactor Xia went down the mountain together, they had already started joking.Jie Chen thought of Xia's benefactor's performance a few days ago, and suddenly it was a little funny. Junior Brother Jie Ao looked at the backs of the two of them and said, in fact, when he proposed to find benefactor Qin that day, benefactor Xia objected on the surface, but he might be willing in his heart. Jie Chen thought for a while, and felt that what Jie Ao said made sense, maybe that day benefactor Xia still complained in his heart that Jie Ao didn't insist on going down the mountain to find benefactor Qin.However, in any case, as a young monk, it should be understandable to be slow to respond to the female benefactor's thoughts.