Chapter 92 92．Does not being able to orgasm lead to a breakup?

Mr. Q Y asked Qi Dian, a folk expert on sexual psychology with a scarf Do you think all women have the surname Gao?My ex-girlfriend pretended to break up with me because I couldn't give her an orgasm, when in reality she loved brand names more than I did.The current woman also often says with disappointed eyes that I can't give her this thing. I can only comfort myself by recalling the clips of giving my first girlfriend an orgasm many years ago. A Qi Dian answered Mr. Y Dear Mr. Yan once said: "I have found it. If you want to date a man, you have to say with a sad face that I have never had an orgasm. If you want to get rid of a man, you have to say righteously, I have never had an orgasm." I haven't had an orgasm." It can be seen how much influence a woman's orgasm has on a man.So let me ask you, do you think orgasm is the standard to test the quality of a woman's sexual life?Or is a woman's orgasm the standard for testing the quality of a man's sexual life?Those two or three seconds of a woman's trembling can really bring you such a great sense of satisfaction?Is this a manifestation of your fragile self-esteem, or is it an expression of your strong desire to conquer?Perhaps, it is really because you love her that you want to make her high?You can bring your first love orgasm, don't you still break up?You can't bring your ex to orgasm, and that's not why you broke up.Also, are you sure you can actually give your first love orgasm?Wasn't it because of her fascination that she just pretended to affect your view of sex for the rest of your life?

Well, I might scare you.What I want to say is that orgasms may be very important to women, but they are really not as important as you men imagine, and, don’t make orgasms mystified, sanctified, neuropathic, and god-like, too much, don’t you want a girlfriend? Are you pretending again and again in order to cope with your constant interrogation of "Have you climaxed yet"? What's more, women are sensory animals. Most of the time, the standard for them to measure the quality of their sexual life is not whether they have orgasms at all, but whether they feel in place. Take myself as an example, I need to be led by men to go through some experiences, to feel the beautiful moments, rare moments, warm moments, sad moments, flirtatious moments, pornographic moments, shameless moments Waiting for a moment, all these forms a feeling of being loved and cared for, and only when you get this feeling can you win a woman's heart.

I read a survey, only 10% of girls can always achieve orgasm during sexual intercourse, and one-third of girls have difficulty or never reach orgasm. In addition, many women experience the orgasm after giving birth. taste.You see, this is not 100% related to your sexual partner or your own body, so don't blame yourself for not having an orgasm, and don't blame it all on the girl.You are making "love", not "orgasm", reach this consensus, and then communicate and discuss on the premise of equality between both parties, seeking a better sexual life experience. It is said that the average time for a woman's single orgasm is only 1.7 seconds. According to the fact that she has sex once a week from the age of 20 until the age of 60, the total duration of orgasm in a woman's life is only about one hour.So, look, life is so beautiful, why do you have to do it all day long, instead of obsessing about orgasms, it's better to do a full set.