Chapter 66 Chapter 4 pack

Q Older young men ask Wang Xiaofeng You are the representative of Chinese and artistic young men in my mind. You are talented and have a little humor, which makes ordinary middle-aged men like us feel inferior.Can you introduce how to attract everyone's attention as a man approaching middle age is more reliable?For example, list some must-see places, must-have clothing, must-talk topics, must-know books, etc.In short, how to show such an outstanding literary and artistic atmosphere among a group of older people? A Wang Xiaofeng's answer to the older male youth Thank you very much for asking such good questions, allowing me to say what I have been holding back for decades.Well, thank you so much, I have always wanted to express some of my inner feelings before, but no one has ever asked such a question, which made me bear the loneliness that I shouldn't have.Thinking of my answer to this question, I was very excited and my hands were shaking. It felt like Feng, Zhang, Jiang, and Chen stood on the Oscar podium and waited anxiously for many years with mixed emotions.

I think it is better not to tell my feelings in the way of painfully talking about the family history of revolutionaries. That is too reserved and pretentious. It will distance you from ordinary youths and increase your social status, making you look like leading cadres.Let me say briefly, in fact, I was very inferior when I was a child. I envy and envy some powerful classmates, but the teacher never considered asking me to do something. I don’t think my previous class teachers were aware of my existence, and even my classmates didn’t realize my existence.Naturally, no girls would look me in the eye, and my classmates would never take me to play. The teacher would suspect that I cheated if I got good grades in the exam, but I believe that one day, I will definitely attract people's attention.The ugly duckling will always turn into a white swan, whether it is through genetically modified or imitation methods, it will always turn into a white swan, and once it becomes a white swan, it can sing to the sky.

When I was in college, business was not very developed, unlike now where everyone can make a name for themselves in the media.But I am a scheming person. I started to study communication. Of course, those books are all about the operation of paper media, but what I see is myself. How can "I" spread out like a media?This is a topic that I have been thinking about for four years in college.I checked a lot of books and found some rules, which I would like to share with you here. 1.You must be different from others.It's quite sad to say, I never wanted to be different from others, I hoped to be recognized and felt the warmth of the collective, but since I was a child, no one saw me, and I was isolated by the group.Until one day I read the sentence "Dogs biting people is not news, but people biting dogs is news" in a book, I immediately realized that I became different precisely because I was isolated, absolutely natural.This gave me a theoretical basis to go forward.Although I was going to be killed like a bird in the first place at any time, I survived, and my habit of standing on the opposite side of the majority made me unique.Remember, it is important to choose a location that has opposites.

2.Only when a person is recognized by the opposite sex can he reflect his charm.I've been researching what women like in men and it frustrates me, they love wealth, status, looks, knowledge.The first two categories must be obtained through struggle and hard work, but I don't want to waste too much time on this.Appearance, God, I am someone who never dares to look in the mirror. Unfortunately, my parents gave me such an appearance, and I can only bear it silently, enduring countless springs and winters.The only thing that can make me improve is knowledge, because this thing is imaginary.I also studied how to make myself a well-educated and eloquent speaker.I found that there are unequal differences in knowledge structure between people. For example, A only knows about B field, C only knows about D field, you can't talk about B with A, and discuss D with C, if you Talking about D with A, talking about B with C, avoiding the edge, and highlighting yourself, it looks awesome.I have been talking about literature and art with science students, and science with liberal arts students.Of course, it should be noted that, do not let A and C meet, the ending of the gang will be very tragic.Along the way, I always met a girl who pretended to admire her knowledge, so that my vanity and her vanity could be sympathetic.

3.In fact I am not humorous, I have to be humorous in order to be likable.China is a country without humor. If you have a little humor, you can stand tall. I have already seen this.I bought more than 30 books on humor, and I listened to all the cross talks and sketches, and memorized the jokes by heart, so that I could spit out lotus flowers in front of everyone.But what is humor, I don't know now, taking other people's things, talking about other people's words, and walking my own way is considered an unusual way.Especially with the Internet, it is even more convenient. 4.Finally, I also want to tell you in the Internet age, you must not only speak buzzwords on the Internet, following the trend can let you find the majority you agree with, but it may not make the majority agree with you.When you have no ink in your chest, you must get a little ink, even a little, can make you different.If you have nothing to do, you can look through the Four Books and Five Classics, or the "Chinese Dictionary", and find some uncommon words to use in your conversation. Remember, even if you have a little more, it will change your destiny. If you can write more in the future With such a "point", maybe he can be regarded as the chairman of the association.Look, how important it is to have a little ink on your chest.

5.Come on, you.