Chapter 82 elegant pursuit

Some girls never take the initiative to pursue boys, not because they are conservative, but because of their personality, just as some people like salty food, while others like sweet food.There is nothing wrong with a woman taking the initiative, but if it is the woman who takes the initiative from the beginning to the end, it would be too unpretentious. Women's pursuits are different from men's pursuits.A man's pursuit can be one-sided and stalking.The so-called pursuit of a woman should be a statement. Taking the initiative to date a man, professing your love for him, taking his hand, sending him flowers, giving him gifts, celebrating his birthday, taking the initiative to take care of him when he is sick, these are all ways to express your opinion.If you have already expressed your position in this way, but the man still does not take the initiative, it means that the woman's pursuit has failed.

All pursuits should have a bottom line. A woman’s bottom line should be stricter than a man’s. If you take the initiative to hold his hand, if he doesn’t take the initiative to date you, how much will he like you?If you continue to stalk, it will only make a man complacent. He will think that you are not precious, and he will not cherish you. Some men say to women when they break up: "You took the initiative at the beginning." That's because women set their bottom line too embarrassingly, almost sending it to their door. Love is not a foolish old man moving mountains, nor is an iron pillar ground into a needle. It is the most elegant thing to give up when you know you can't do anything.

Some women think that the bottom line for women chasing men is to voluntarily dedicate themselves to men, and it is too inelegant to dedicate themselves to get attention.