Chapter 65 you don't have to like him
Ms. A had a crush on a certain gentleman, and she felt very painful. She asked:
"Is there any way not to like him?"
It's too easy not to like someone.When you like a person, forget his shortcomings and only remember his advantages.If you don't like a person, it's just the opposite. You should forget his good points and only remember his bad points.
When you meet him, try to find faults in him, such as his upturned nostrils, rough skin, sloping shoulders, untrimmed nails, and unsightly walking posture.After picking out his shortcomings, he has to expand his shortcomings.
When you can't see him, try to think about his shortcomings, such as he has no property, no savings, doesn't make much money, loves to spend money, has a short life, has an ugly smile, and so on.
Every time you miss him, you must first expand his shortcomings, and you will gradually realize that this man is not very good, and he is not worthy of you.
If you imagine a person too well, and if you can't get him, you will only make yourself miserable. Instead of doing this, it is better to belittle him.It may not be wrong to belittle him. Before you get a person, you always think he is good and you can't see his shortcomings, but after you get it, you will find that he is just an ordinary person.Many resentful couples once imagined each other too well.
A asked: "Is it easier to like someone, or not to like someone?"
Of course it is not easy to like someone.