Chapter 59 Pursue unfreedom

A man said that the main theme of all literature or popular works is the pursuit of freedom.Even a love story, in the final analysis, is the pursuit of freedom. Is love the pursuit of freedom?On the contrary, love is the pursuit of freedom. There is a saying, "Give me freedom or give me death." But among the people who commit suicide, the number of people who commit suicide because of love is far more than those who commit suicide because of lack of freedom. Freedom is precious, and we exchange this most precious thing for love. Because we love someone, we wait for his call every day, wait for a date with him, wear his favorite clothes, do what he likes, and are willing to give up other opposite sexes for him.

This is the first step to not being free. The relationship between the two is deep, and we even made a choice between career and love, lighten our career, and don't want to get over his head.Don't do things he doesn't like, tolerate him when he quarrels, but understand that love always requires sacrifices, and if you want to be free, you won't get affection. This is the second step of not being free. The final step in unfreedom is marriage. Knowing that you will lose your freedom, and knowing that this is a lifetime contract, in order to get the other party, in order to make the other party happy, you are willing to make a promise.

Love has always been a kind of bondage, and the pursuit of love does not mean the pursuit of freedom. Falling in love is a process of pursuing unfreedom. When you complain about "too unfree", it means you don't love him.