Chapter 33 A marriage, two people grow up

A man who has been married for eight years said that he and his wife no longer have the love they had before. "So what's left?" I asked him. "There is love, kindness, righteousness, resentment, and debt," he said. "What about love?" "There is no pure love anymore. For a man and a woman, only the love in the first six months is unconditional, and it will inevitably become more and more complicated in the future." He said. He got married in the first place for the sake of breath, he and she were both young, he had no money, no achievements, she ignored the objection of her family to live with him.In the later stage of the cohabitation, he found that he did not love her as before, but in order not to let her family look down on him, he resolutely married her.

During the eight years of marriage, she kept hurting him.He was about to give up before she realized what she had done wrong. "Isn't that the reward of suffering?" I asked him. "But I still mind her hurting me before. When I dream back at midnight, I will still think of her hurting me before." He said. Since he chose to stay by her side, why bother to think about the past?How does that benefit the relationship? In his life, it is impossible for another woman to accompany him through the most important eight years of his life.There is love, kindness, righteousness, resentment, and debt. In a marriage, two people grow up. Even if she hurt him, he should thank her for making him grow up.