Chapter 16 two sides of a coin

A friend who had just recovered from a serious illness and escaped from death had an epiphany about life. He said: "Happiness and pain are like two sides of a coin. You have the right to toss a coin, but you have no ability to decide whether the side you toss is pain or happiness." , if you can reduce the pain of those around you, you may be happier.” Who doesn't understand this truth?Except for those demon kings, no one will deliberately increase the suffering of others.If you want to make others suffer, you have to pay for it yourself. First of all, you must do everything possible to make him suffer, and try your best to make him never recover. If you use the same amount of energy to make yourself happy, you will not know how happy you are.

Sometimes, it's not that you want to make others suffer, but that you don't want to make others suffer. You can't stop making them suffer. All breakups are to build your own happiness on the pain of others. I once wanted to make you happy, but in the end I made you miserable, which is not what I wanted. Two people are together for happiness, breaking up is to relieve pain, you can no longer make me happy, I have to leave, when I leave, it is also very painful, but you must be more painful than me, because the first to say goodbye, the first to pursue I am happy. The most beautiful state of a coin is not still, but when it is turning like a top, no one knows whether the side that is about to turn out is happiness or pain, love or hate.

Pleasure and pain, love and hate, are always entangled.