Chapter 25 we are different

The man marries a woman ten years younger than him, and the two have a child.However, ten years later, this marriage was dull and boring. The man often lingered outside and only came home in the middle of the night.Women go to bed early and get up early, and their preferences and lives are completely different. Once, I asked him: "Then why did you get married in the first place?" The man smiled and said, "I'm older than her, I thought I could change her." I didn't expect such a smart man to be extremely stupid. How can we possibly change another human being? We still live together today and he couldn't change her and she couldn't change him.If they could choose again, they would probably not choose each other.

How sad it is when you find out that the person you are with in this life will never be your choice in the next life. It turned out that it was just a misunderstanding that we grew up together. Men often complain that women try to change him, why is it different for men?The difference is only: a woman will tell you frankly that she misses you like this.The man won't say it, but secretly observes you there, intending to use his intelligence to change you. It's not like one person never changes for another, we've all changed a lot for the ones we love.However, we can never completely change our personality.

What makes a man and woman a good couple is not because they are identical, but because they can accept each other's differences.