Chapter 69 Single women's "three no's" policy

I've been asked what a single woman in the twenty-first century should look like.I'm not an advocate for single women and I don't know how to answer this question.If you ask me, what am I like in the 21st century, I can answer this. I will implement the "three noes policy". The "three no's" are: no care, no thought, and no kindness. "Not taking care of" means not taking care of men anymore.Taking care of someone is exhausting.To care about his daily diet, care about his work, family, and his emotions.You have to take good care of him and let him know that you are the best.I don't want to work so hard anymore, I want someone else to take care of me.

"Don't bother" means that you don't bother to coax men.All holidays, his birthday or important days, no more thinking about buying gifts or doing something to please him.Giving a gift requires brains. How difficult is it to make yourself like it and make him like it?Mind is time.If you have time, use it to struggle. The last point is "not kind".Never relent for a man who doesn't love.Now that you have no feelings for him, stop procrastinating, don't waste time, and don't let him hold on to hope.Letting him keep hope is the cruelest thing. For those men who are uninterested and stalking, there is absolutely no need for mercy. You might as well tell him directly: "I don't want to waste your time, and I don't want you to waste mine."

let's work hard together.Remember: no caring, no thought, no kindness.