Chapter 33 not how, it is necessary

A girl wrote to ask: "How to build self-confidence after a broken relationship?" After falling out of love, it is not "how", but "must" to build self-confidence. He doesn't love you anymore, you have to get up as soon as possible.Instead of sitting there thinking about "how" to build self-confidence, it is better to tell yourself that you "must" have self-confidence. Knowing that this is "must", you will think of ways to build self-confidence. In life, some things are "must". You don't have to love someone. You don't have to be wronged.

You don't have to conform. You don't have to lie. However, you must love yourself. You have to believe in yourself, especially when you are alone. Some persistence is a must. You can only wear a certain style of clothing. You think that happiness must have certain conditions - such as a home, a bowl of hot soup, a pile of food, a few books. There are some things you will never compromise on.Your happiness and happiness are what you must stick to in the end.Then, you think about how to be happy and joyful. People who are confident are happier.This is not a question of how, but a necessity.