Chapter 8 Ten years from now, I'll still love him

A woman once told me: "I married this man because I knew that ten years from now, I would still look up to him." Ten years, is it short or long? No matter how much you admire a man, after living with him, you will find that he is just a mortal.In the eleventh year or later, when he is exhausted, do you no longer love him? Ten years is too short. Marry a man because you admire him, and you may end up disappointed.He is not a teacher of all ages, how can every word he speaks be full of wisdom, and he is also urging himself to make progress all the time? Men's talent and women's youth will regress.When the admiration ends, you learn to appreciate other qualities in this man.When you complained that he was exhausted, did you reflect that you are not so young and beautiful anymore?

When a man sees a woman, it starts with appearance.When a woman looks at a man, she first looks at his talent.Ten years later, this is no longer what to look at. Ten years later, still relying on admiration to maintain a relationship is very dangerous. If I am going to marry a man, I know that ten, twenty, thirty years from now, even if I no longer admire him, I will still love him and still enjoy living with him.