Chapter 6 lust doesn't kill women

Whenever I read Kang Min, I think of Guo Fu.It is necessary for these two women to be compared together.Or someone will be surprised: how do these two women compare?Where do they have anything in common?In fact, they are quite comparable. Guo Fu is the wife of the leader of the beggar gang.How easy is her identity?The whole process, roughly, was that her parents arranged a job fair for the head of the gang, and asked her son-in-law to participate in the election. In the end, she was successfully selected. Everyone expected her and applauded her. The whole process took only half a day. Look at Kang Min again.She also wants to be the wife of the head of the beggar gang.But how difficult is it for her to be a wife?She struggled all her life, killed her husband, abolished the gang leader, slept with the elders, exhausted her poisonous tricks, and finally gave up her life, but she was still one step away from becoming the leader.

Yes, that arena is not fair.Guo Fu has a good pair of parents, but Kang Min does not.The whole capital of her hard work is only "two moon cakes".Although the book says they are "round and white", mooncakes are just mooncakes after all, and they are fed to powerful people, who often beat dogs with meat buns. But what I want to talk about here is not about fairness, but about desire. Kang Min actually had a chance - Duan Zhengchun promised her to be the side concubine of King Zhennan of Dali.But if she doesn't do it, she must be the queen.We can't completely blame fate for being unfair. Fate gave her a chance, but she refused it without even thinking about it seriously.Therefore, the God of Destiny withdrew his gift and sentenced Kang Min to be out of the game.

I used to think that the reason for Kang Min's failure was that she was too greedy. As Alexandre Dumas said, people, God gave them limited abilities, but God gave them unlimited desires.However, as time went by, I slowly discovered that this was not the case. I tried to make a detailed dissection of Kang Min's desire: When she was seven years old, she wanted to have money to buy flowered clothes; when she was seventeen, she fell in love with the suave Duan Zhengchun; a few years later, she married Ma Dayuan, the deputy head of the beggar gang; later she fell in love with Wei An Qiao Feng; Qiao Feng ignored her, and she urged Ma Dayuan to kill Qiao Feng to become the gang leader, and wanted to become the gang leader's wife herself; Duan Zhengchun and her old relationship rekindled, and she proposed to be the queen; finally the queen did not become the queen, and before she died The last request I had was for Qiao Feng to hug him, take a look at her, and kiss her.

The trajectory of her desire is this: wealth-man-status-man-status-man. She wants status for a while, and love for a while.When fate gave her status, she wanted love; when fate gave her love, she wanted status.All readers probably have a common feeling: no one can figure out what Kang Min wants.She probably doesn't even know what she wants. Look at Guo Fu again.Also dissecting her desire, you will find that it is much simpler, there is only one word-to be favored, to be favored, to be favored.It dawned on me. Guo Fu and Kang Min are not likable.But the difference is that Guo Fu can be read.We know when she's angry, when she's laughing, and how to make her happy.Although she is an extremely difficult woman to serve, it doesn't matter, there will always be men who are patient and invincible.In Yang Guo's eyes, she is certainly a piece of shit, but in Yeluqi's eyes, she is a flower.

Guo Fu's desire is very clear, just like a geometric body, no matter how tricky and ugly the shape is, there will always be a container to hold it.Kang Min is different, her desire is like a quark movement, irregular and never-ending.Love, money, status, and tenderness can't buy her off.She is a real rich and powerful woman who cannot be promiscuous, and mighty who cannot be subdued. No one can understand Kang Min.You have no way of knowing when she is happy, when she is jealous, and when she is angry.Believe it or not, there is not a single man here who understands her, no matter if it is Duan Zhengchun, Ma Dayuan, Bai Shijing, Quan Guanqing, Qiao Feng, none of them understand her.Therefore no one loves her.There are many evil women in the movie, but they are all loved.Ah Zi is so bad, she has You Tanzhi's love; Ye Erniang is so bad, she has Xuan Ci's love.But Kang Min is unloved.

It is not necessarily a bad thing for people to aim higher, or even greedy.Kang Min, as a girl from a poor background, was still doing rough work when she was seventeen years old, so that her hands were rough. At that time, she said that she wanted to be a princess, or the wife of a gang leader, or to find the most powerful woman in the world. Isn't a man of noble spirit also what we call greed and wishful thinking?But in fact, she proved her ability, she became the wife of the deputy gang leader, and almost became the princess.I believe that if her goal is firm enough and she works hard in one direction, it is very likely that her dream will come true.

The bad thing is that she doesn't know what she really wants, and she keeps opening up new battlefields, and easily wipes out all the seizures she has made in the old battlefields.It's like she wanted to be the wife of the gang leader, but killed her husband Ma Dayuan, and ended up not even being the wife of the deputy gang leader; she wanted to get the heroic man Qiao Feng, so she used Bai Shijing, but instead she was defiled by this bad old man. There is a joke that a bear breaks sticks, first breaks one and clamps it under the left arm, then breaks the other and clamps it under the right arm, and then breaks it back and forth, the sticks keep falling, and after a long time of busy work, only one is held and left. How like Kang Min.

Desire will not kill a woman, but the premise is that a woman must understand it, understand what she really wants, and then work hard.Some people now generalize the so-called "four idiots" of men, one of which is "you want a baby after having a mistress".