Chapter 19 love is a mango

Planting apples, how to sow seeds, how to fertilize, how to get rid of insects, when apples will bloom, bear fruit, and fall to the ground to rot, all have a spectrum, a rough idea, a method, a rule, accumulated by the predecessors Experience can be followed. However, how many days and twists and turns does it take for a love to truly "mature"? There are always two people like this, love each other, hate each other, separate and reunite, go back and forth a thousand times, meet again and again, the fate is unfinished, and finally one day, at the roundabout of life, amidst the urging sirens of the years, Illegally parked, let all living beings wait around, smiled and sighed: "It turns out that the maturity of a relationship is so difficult!"

Love, if it is a selfless giving, of course there will be no troubles or regrets; but the "love" of love, as we all know, is not selfless, there are too many possessions, too many demands, too much bargaining; too many impurities , The flowers are real, how can they grow out of thick bracts? Maturity is not expansion, but shrinkage, shrinking selfishness, stubbornness and prejudice, jealousy and resentment. In the movie, the hero says to the heroine: "I love you!" As soon as the camera turns, the two are already writhing naked on the bed. In the end, the woman gasps and tears at the man's back, nails embedded in the flesh, and love becomes " Profound”; being poisoned by model dramas, we will inevitably think that love is tantamount to scratching the back desperately.But what to do after scratching the back?How can we turn this relationship into a relationship that allows everyone to make progress together?The textbook didn't say it, the elders just told us: When we grow up, we will understand.

Everyone avoids the important and takes the light.Love, this topic is too difficult and complicated.In the novel, when the protagonist encounters relationship problems, he will go to the ends of the earth, looking at the blue sea under the full moon, with dolphins jumping out; unfortunately, after watching the dolphins, there is a plate of fried squid in the office; the boss , in reality, is the natural enemy of love. "I brought back a batch of seeds from abroad, which can grow very large roses." My friend saw that the sun was shining through the window of my house, and the breeze was refreshing, so he planned to send a pot for foster care.I don't know how to grow flowers. I would rather bury my old love in a rice jar and treat it like a mango. When it is "retting" ripe, I will peel the skin and eat the meat, savoring the sweet fragrance.