Chapter 33 If you want to blame, blame this is a round dance

There is a kind of film, which I call "round dance film", which is a film that specializes in expressing the intricate and undercurrent of interpersonal relationships in a small circle, such as the Australian film "Lantana". The main characters in the film come from four families and two couples, and all of them have some kind of overt or dark connection between them. A and B have an extramarital affair, A's wife C receives psychological treatment from D, D gets into E's car, and E is B's neighbor, B suspects that E killed D, reports to the police, and it is A who comes to solve the case.They seem to be dancing a round dance, seemingly dazzling and changing frequently, but they are just going around among a limited number of people.The world here is reduced to the size of four families and two lovers. All the characters hold back their energy and have a little bit of ambiguous ambition. They want to extend the tentacles of desire to a farther place, but it is always in vain , I always have to have a little relationship with people nearby.Everyone hits each other, I squeeze you, appearing on the same stage, toes touches other people's heels, and dance partners change back and forth, but it's just a contest with fate.

There is a kind of relationship, which I call the "circle dance relationship", which is the kind of relationship that exists in a huge world but only arranges and combines a limited number of characters.Not to mention Edison Chen and the stars involved, the Diamond King and the female stars behind him, even Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung, who are fluttering in white in our minds, are also a link in the chain of the round dance. A was with B in TVB's actor training class, and D was behind the scenes to support C's election as a sister. D also supported E. E used to be A's lover, but F took A away, and F didn't With A, F's current partner G used to be a rival in love with E's ex-boyfriend H, and they fought for C's heart together.People who are not the clearest of logic will definitely be confused by this spider web.

In fact, everyone is in such a limited "round dance relationship" network, and people's energy and time are always limited. If the radius of the social circle is extended and extended, it may not be too big.What's more, taste and temperament are guiding. The people you associate with will always be the ones you want to associate with. The vast universe you think is just the smallest galaxy unconsciously made up of stars with similar attributes. So, I randomly open a blog, and at least one of my friends will appear in the link.I randomly clicked on a member on Douban, and there were always acquaintances of mine in his list of friends and neighbors. I chatted with a girl far away in Paris on MSN. One day, she suddenly told me that her roommate was my closest friend. The daughter of a good friend's godfather. The "Rule of Six" has expired, and the distance between one person and another is now three.

The circle of interpersonal relationships is just a circle of dancing. Although the partners are constantly changing, there are only a few people dancing.There are only a few people who are willing to be circled in, and there is nothing new in exchange.Don't blame me for stealing your dance partner, dirtying your dancing shoes, or setting your clock to twelve ahead of time.If you want to blame, blame this is a round dance.