Chapter 27 texture of life

In an episode of "Six Feet", Claire and her mother, Mrs. Fisher, went to visit their aunt's house, but ran away overnight. The thing is roughly like this, Claire and her mother, Mrs. Fisher, are the emotional geniuses among ordinary people, but what about the aunt and her daughter?They seem to be perfect, healthy, and enthusiastic, but they are flat people, and their every move is probably carried out in accordance with the "Guidelines for Family Members to Get Along with Healthy".They praised each other and expressed their love for each other at the dinner table. When they talked about the excitement, they clasped their fists in front of their chests, and they were so happy that they almost passed out.At the same time, they had a lot of suggestions for Claire and her mother's life, and enthusiastically arranged the next day's activities - going cycling early in the morning.In the middle of the night, Mrs. Fisher broke into Claire's bedroom and hurriedly woke her up: "Go, if you don't go, I'm going to ride a bicycle!" Ran away.

Too deliberate health and perfection often lacks a sense of reality, let alone texture.Just like a group of my friends, they organized an art club in the local area, and often held some activities on weekends: gatherings during the day and watching movies at night; mountain climbing today and sand platooning tomorrow; Acting training class, the next time a writers' fellowship will be held.Every event, everyone cheered, hugged, elated, and burst into tears. I couldn't help but mutter, don't ordinary people sleep in on weekends?Don't you want to visit your relatives' house?Don't you want to play mahjong?Don't you want to go shopping in the mall?Worst of all, you can also watch TV series at home. How can you have so much time to participate in activities?Of course, we also know that the first element of a healthy life is to get up early and go to bed early. Playing mahjong is not conducive to physical and mental health. Most of the things bought impulsively in the mall are useless, which is not conducive to creating a conservation-oriented society.But, isn't the joy of life in these little indulgences and little unhealthiness?

Therefore, I went to their activities with great enthusiasm several times, but finally lost in front of those scenes that shouted "love" and "dream" in that overly healthy, normal, and sunny atmosphere.I heard that there will be a project where the attendees will perform on stage and talk about their feelings. The friends who went with me and I were divided into different groups and couldn’t talk, so we had to send text messages to each other in the corner: “Go! If you don’t leave, you’ll have to Riding a bike!" We knew it was impolite, so we ran out the back door with our heads down—there was a discount in the shopping mall outside, and the hot pot restaurant needed to grab seats.

Once everything is "deliberately" started, it will immediately fall into a rut, "must be like this" and "must be like this" follow the same path, and sooner or later they will collide.The price paid by the two methods is exactly the same, that is, the loss of true feelings.I have never dared to object to a healthy and bright life, but if this kind of life comes at the cost of having a high degree of control over one's physical and mental feelings, pulling out one's own hair and leaving the earth, then it is better not to have it.Modern management science advocates "emotional management", and the common problem of those inspirational books and clubs is that they try their best to manage emotions in life, put all emotions and feelings into the same track, and finally eliminate real feelings.So I like the Fisher family in "Six Feet", and I like it to the point where I feel sympathy.Because Claire and her mother, Mrs. Fisher, have all the defects of ordinary people, including a little decadence and a little laziness.In the face of life, they are sometimes confused, sometimes desperate, and the occasional communication between family members is not smooth. They all have all these flaws, and we also have all these flaws.But only this kind of life can have real texture, and that texture is the whole reason why we are greedy for life.