Chapter 25 love old men

The lawsuit-ridden Liang Luoshi was interviewed, which confirmed my long-standing guess that what she really likes is not a boy of the same age, but an old man like a father. Thanks to the discord between her parents, she has never seen her father since she was born.The entire image of her father came from a single photo, and finally she knew that her father had already died and his ashes had been transported back to Portugal.Because of this, she hated her mother to the core, and she once turned against her mother because of this. She did not want to believe any rumors about his father, such as his death due to drug addiction.She can't see him, so he's perfect.She can't find him, so he's an eternity.And her most famous movie "Isabella" is also a story about finding her father.The sixteen-year-old girl with sharp eyebrows and starry eyes and the old man who was almost forty years old were entangled in the doubt of whether he was her father, and could no longer tell whether it was family affection or love.

The man she likes is also obviously an old man, not only two or three centimeters shorter than her, "It's better to be fat, have a belly, dark and strong. Because I think it's cute."Isn't this Du Wenze in "Isabella"?So I suspected that Peng Haoxiang wrote "Isabella" because of her, and what she acted was her own story.The lover in the heart of this girl in the vortex is an old man who gives her a sense of security. In everyone's heart, there is actually an old man, who is a master, teacher, friend, brother, father, grandfather, lover, lover, doctor, captain, priest, and also a mountain, umbrella, shoulder, house, nest, harbor, home, past A boat on the river, an unexploitable card, or an encyclopedia, a navigation light, "Guide to Life", "Reader's Digest", "Must Reads for Wilderness Survival", and "Daily Useful Family Encyclopedia".The old man in us, the voice that says "Let it be" to us when we're confused, is everything we need, the sum of all our relationships.He does not necessarily have to be really old, but he must have an "old soul", as Zhu Tianxin said in "The Chronicle of Predicting Death": "They usually have accumulated several lifetimes of wisdom experience compared to others (of course, including death) and pain)”, so it is penetrating, transparent, firm, stable, and unmoved.

There may not be such an old man, this may be just an ideal image, but some people are infinitely close to this image.Eric Clapton, Leonard Cohen, Bob Dylan, Sting, Jean Reno, Takakura Ken, Chen Sheng, Hou Hsiao-hsien, are all the best old men and old soul spokespersons in the field of vision.The avatars of several "old men" groups in Douban are basically monopolized by them, and one of the posts has more clear indicators: "You should be tall, have beautiful lips, smile in your eyes when you look at you, and have a beautiful back." .” However, a more realistic criterion is that they have an economic foundation.When women's magazines list the sources of attraction for older men, the first item is "wealth attraction", followed by "role attraction".In our expectations of "old men", this one is actually very important. The charm of old men lies largely in the sense of security they give people. In this world, people's anxiety, fear, and depression are mostly due to money.

There is an old man in everyone's heart. Another meaning may be that everyone yearns for a safe, comfortable and secure perfect world.We love old men, and perhaps love the perfect world that is safe and secure and not troubled by money.