Chapter 6 Qu Meifeng's version of "Mi Yang"

Korean director Lee Chang-dong's movie "Miryang" tells such a story: Shen Ai took his son to the small town of Miryang to live, but his son was kidnapped and killed.Suffering in extreme pain, Shen Ai sought comfort from religion and decided to forgive her enemy, but when she came to the prison to announce to the murderer what she had learned from religion and her forgiveness, she killed her The son's criminal claimed that he, too, had converted to God and had been forgiven by God. Today, "Mi Yang" has a real-life version, and the protagonist is Chu Meifeng, who once served as the director of the Cultural Bureau of Hsinchu City, Taiwan. On February 26, 2008, Qu Meifeng dressed in black and went to Taoyuan Women's Prison to welcome Shen Rong out of prison. Shen Rong was the publisher of "Exclusive Report" seven years ago, and "Exclusive Report" used to be In the form of a gift attached to the magazine, the Chu Meifeng sex CD is disseminated.Shen Rong was convicted of obstructing secrecy and served two years in prison.At the prison gate, they embraced, shed tears, apologized and forgived softly.All of this was captured by the media guarding the door, including forty employees of "Exclusive Report", as well as the camera team of Australia and Asia Satellite TV, where Meifeng was the anchor, and she specially brought them to follow up the filming.

That's not real forgiveness, and that's not real apology.A real forgiveness will not be so grandiose in advance, and a real apology will never be so calm.Shen Rong's parents would not welcome their "apologetic" daughter home by sending tens of millions of luxury houses as red envelopes.Qu Meifeng didn't let go, and Shen Rong and her family didn't really feel guilty. That's why all of "Mi Yang" seems so gentle, so decent, so harmonious, but so disturbing.Even bystanders can feel that the turbulent emotional waves have not been released. Undoubtedly, Qu Meifeng is a victim. She was forced to stand in front of the world in a more shocking way than "Pornographic" when the crowd's acceptance and the threshold of shock were not so high.As a victim, she finally decided to forgive after seven years of day and night, morning and evening, but Meifeng only borrowed the form of "forgiveness" to sacrifice and distort her true feelings. way to complete your reflection.But whether it is forgiveness or reflection, the evil party needs to cooperate by admitting its own evil, but now it seems that the other side does not admit its own evil.What shocked her the most was that no matter her forgiveness or reflection, it turned out to be worthless.

Forgiveness must be based on the unequal status of the two parties. Regardless of the psychological or economic status, the one who forgives must be superior. Once the unequal status is the opposite, forgiveness will fall into an embarrassing situation.Just like the protagonist in "Mi Yang", when she forgives the person who hurt her with a high attitude, she finds that the other person's attitude is higher than herself. earlier than her.And when Qu Meifeng faced the person who pushed her off the cliff, she also had to find out that the status of the two parties was not equal, the situation of the other party was better than hers, and deep down in her heart, the other party had never even truly repented!

I often hear people say "letting go", and the true meaning of "letting go" should be to face yourself truthfully, love is love, hate is hate, no "letting go" means no "letting go", admitting all this is the real "letting go" ".And if you can't face your own results sincerely, not only will love and hate not be released, but will fall into a stalemate. Stunningly similar events, always occurring at the same time.Ten years ago, Korean singer Baek Jiyoung was filmed by her ex-manager boyfriend Kim Siwon for a 40-minute sex video, and he posted the video on the Internet for profit. After being accused by her, he fled to the United States, and later had sex with an underage girl relationship, was arrested in Los Angeles.Will Bai Zhiying pick him up in front of the prison someday in the future?