Chapter 43 unconscious psychologist

What has fascinated me recently is a TV documentary. This film was first broadcast by Liaoning Satellite TV's "Wang Gang Tells a Story". Later, other TV stations made adaptations, but the script and material are basically the same. Five years ago, a woman who sang in an underground passage was discovered by reporters. Her life experience concentrated almost all tear-jerking factors. She was only sixteen years old. The status of an illegitimate daughter made her dependent on others since she was a child, and wandered around. When she was young, she was physically disabled due to leukemia, but she loved music. By the age of 16, she had written more than 300 songs, and she relied on selling and singing in underground passages to make a living and earn money for medical treatment.The media quickly reported on her, and she was once on CCTV's talk show.

Just as the media enthusiasm started to fade, she was surrounded by a following of men and women who quit their jobs and dumped their fortunes to live together to care for her, forming a bizarre family they called brothers and sisters , Someone is responsible for the expenses of the whole family.Finally, someone came to her senses and reported the crime. The police verified her identity. Her family was in a rural area in the north. She had been married once. The most amazing thing was her age. At the time of the crime, she was nearly thirty-seven. age. The film is carried out in the form of legal reports, and it has to take care of the TV audience, so all branches have been deleted, and the point of view is as clear as possible.But I still pieced together another outline bit by bit based on repeated viewing and Baidu searches, that is, how did she and her brothers and sisters get together?How are they getting along?

Gustave Paller said it well in "The Crowd": "All the great men in the world, the founders of all religions and empires, the apostles of all faiths and outstanding statesmen, and even, to put it mildly, the Little bosses are unconscious psychologists who have an instinctive but often reliable understanding of group personality." She is such an unconscious psychologist, she instinctively knows what these followers want, or Let me tell you what they lack: they need to crack their loneliness, they need to have a spiritual and physical connection with others that they think transcends the world, they need to join a group, and they need to fight for a common cause.

She then gave them the chance, she made herself into that noble common cause, the life of caring for her gave meaning to their lives, she created a reason for existence as a collective, a paradise of youth, none of them worked, in The family played superstitious games, sang songs all day long, and circled around her. This emotion must be stimulated to continue in the form of constant consumption, and she took on this task consciously. , to prevent her from being taken away by the devil until she wakes up), needing money tomorrow, and going to school the day after tomorrow, the little spikes of excitement stimulate them to secrete emotions, and always maintain a certain emotional intensity.Her final failure was that she spent too much. If she was willing to keep the water going, or even go back a little from time to time, I am afraid that she would not be discovered until today—in fact, there are still her "brothers and sisters" who believe that she is not a liar. Still need help.

Her "brothers and sisters" are not mediocre people, they all have beautiful features, decent speech, loud singing, and obviously have received a good education.However, no matter how good the education is, it will fail in front of such an unconscious psychologist. Fucik has a famous saying: "People, I love you, but you must be vigilant!" Those who must be vigilant are probably these unconscious psychologists hidden in the crowd.