Chapter 19 female comedian

I saw Wu Junru on TV. She was promoting the new film with several actresses. I looked at her carefully and felt that she had regular facial features, exquisite makeup, vivid expressions, and soft breath. In short, she was the most attractive among the few women. But the host kept asking those ugly actresses what kind of pressure is there to be a beautiful woman. In short, the roles have been assigned. That's not the case at all.Once a woman becomes a comedian, she automatically turns ugly.A similar example is Song Dandan. When she first debuted, she was an actor in a youth idol drama. Once she became a comedian, she would appear on the list of ugly stars in the entertainment industry at every turn.

Reminds me of an anecdote about Little S that I saw a while ago.After Xiao S met Xu Yajun, a financial upstart, she secretly decided that he was the one she liked. However, Xu Yajun already had a fiancée at that time, but Xiao S never gave up. When meeting Xu Yajun for the first time, she was uncharacteristically sitting quietly, but she couldn't smile. Xu Yajun's curiosity was aroused. Obviously, what attracted Xu Yajun was not the ghostly image of Xiao S, but the ladylike image she deliberately created. As a woman with the ability to be humorous, as a woman whose humorous image is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, why does Xiao S restrain her sense of humor when courting a mate?Because, between the sexes, the need for a sense of humor is different.A sense of humor has never been an important condition for a man to choose a mate, and a sense of humor has never been an essential capital for the object of desire projection.

American scholar Eric Bresler once conducted an experiment in which men and women who participated in the experiment were shown some photos and information of the opposite sex. The results showed that under the same level of appearance, women are willing to choose those who look happy Smiling, lively men who added the words "has a sense of humor" to their self-introduction, and men without exception chose women who looked unsmiling and avoided those marked as "has a sense of humor" , even if they are more beautiful.Ultimately, Bressler concluded: "A sense of humor does increase the likelihood that people will be partners with each other, but often only relative to men."

Men's sense of humor will increase their charm index, but women's sense of humor will become their disadvantage. Why?Sam Schuster, a professor at Newcastle University in the United Kingdom, pointed out that men's sense of humor is actually a manifestation of aggression. Testosterone in men is the source of this aggression. Humor is to cover up this aggression Props, apparently, a sense of humor is another expression of masculinity. To put it bluntly, a woman's sense of humor is rarely helpful to them in winning a partner and maintaining a relationship. Chen Hui said it well: "Humor does ease the atmosphere, but it also 'softens' other things. Including that special tension in a man's heart, which we call sexual desire."

Therefore, Wu Junru and Song Dandan are not regarded as sexy idols, although their looks are far better than some stars who call themselves beauties. It is not so much that they have become ugly, but that their humor has destroyed the subtle beauty. The "tension" makes them look ugly.Therefore, in the women's social guide, women are never required to develop a sense of humor, or even "control the sense of humor". To what extent is the control?Cai Lan pointedly said: "A woman with a sense of humor is not a woman who can tell jokes. She is a woman who can laugh when listening to a man's speech." Well, the expression of a woman's sense of humor ends here.