Chapter 9 8. Interview Notes of Foggy Barrier River: Cooperation and Game

Fog Man: Mr. Wei, I have a question that I really don't understand, can I ask you for advice? Wei Xiaobao: It's okay, please speak, please speak. Foggy and blocked: Mr. Wei, I don't understand. Apart from the naked competition for interests, is there no other way of cooperation that is more in line with human nature? Wei Xiaobao: What do you mean...can you explain it a little more clearly? Fog filled the river: Mr. Wei, what I mean is that in the Daqing Group where you worked, Chairman Kang is a great talent, President Ao is very talented in management, and Mr. Wei... you are especially popular and have many crushes. Everyone likes you, so why can't everyone cooperate sincerely, but must fight for each other, even at the expense of putting each other to death before making it fast?

Wei Xiaobao: Do ​​you have this question... The key is that that boy Oboi is too bad, really bad. Fog filled the river: But it turned out later that Oboi did not have a single heart for Daqing Group, and he was also devoutly thinking about making the company a success.Since everyone has the same goal, why can't they cooperate and must solve the problem with such fierce means of struggle? Wei Xiaobao: This...you wait until I go to urinate and come back to tell you. (Wei Xiaobao turns into the inner room, returns after a while, and sits back on his seat.) Wei Xiaobao: The question you asked just now is very good and very insightful. It fully shows that Mr. Wuman Lanjiang is a thinker who is good at independent thinking... By the way, can you tell me what question you asked me just now ?You see I am so busy with work, I forgot when I turned around.

Wu Man Lan Jiang: Oh, thank you Mr. Wei for your compliment, you really deserve to be my confidant.I just asked you why Chairman Kang, Mr. Ao, and many members of the leadership team in the enterprise could not be united, but continued internal friction at all costs? Wei Xiaobao: You asked such a question, which shows your ignorance of management. There is a law in management. I wonder if you have heard of it? The Fog Blocks the River: What Law? Wei Xiaobao: The Law of Competent Disapproval. The fog is blocking the river: the able-bodied don't take it seriously?What does it mean? Wei Xiaobao: This law was put forward by Murphy, an American literary scholar.

Fog over the river: Oh, can Mr. Wei explain it more clearly? Wei Xiaobao: This...you wait until I go to urinate and come back to tell you. (Wei Xiaobao turns into the inner room, returns after a while, and sits back on his seat.) Wei Xiaobao: The meaning of this sentence is very simple. To put it more clearly, people who are rich in leadership do not need collaborators. They only need subordinates. Collaborators distort their ideas.Therefore, the competition at the top of the enterprise is usually manifested as a battle of ideas for the right to speak.The cooperation you mentioned generally manifests itself as a kind of mutual recognition and compromise. This is a normal thing among people with weak willpower, but the stronger a person's management ability is, the more he cannot tolerate it because of others. relinquish their claims.And the top managers of the company are all leaders with strong personal will, so this kind of struggle is inevitable.

Fog Man Lan Jiang: Mr. Wei, I still can't accept your explanation. If everyone is just blindly fighting among themselves, how can they have the energy to do a good job in the company's internal affairs? Wei Xiaobao: This...you wait until I go to urinate and come back to tell you. (Wei Xiaobao turns into the inner room, returns after a while, and sits back on his seat.) Wei Xiaobao: Your question just shows the lack of our humanistic thinking.The river is full of fog, you must be clear that conflict and cooperation are the eternal themes of human society. Conflict is absolute and cooperation is relative. This is determined by human nature.In fact, any research on humanistic thought is based on this point. Apart from conflict and cooperation, any research on social forms and relationships is meaningless.

Mist filled the river: Mmm, Mmmm, Mr. Wei is really knowledgeable and knowledgeable, he even knows this.So in Mr. Wei's view, in what form is the form of interpersonal cooperation in the workplace manifested? Wei Xiaobao: This...you wait until I go to urinate and come back to tell you. (Wei Xiaobao turns into the inner room, returns after a while, and sits back on his seat.) Wei Xiaobao: To answer your question, we first need to clarify a premise: Why do people cooperate with each other? Fog Man Lan Jiang: Well...of course people need to cooperate, cooperation can be a win-win situation.

Wei Xiaobao: That's right, cooperation can be a win-win situation. That is to say, the reason why people cooperate with each other is because of the relationship of interests. Is that what you mean? Fog covered the river: really?I don't seem to have said that. Wei Xiaobao: If it is not for profit, what is the purpose of cooperation between people? Fog Man Blocks the River: This... Wei Xiaobao: Since the cooperation in the workplace is established based on the relationship of interests, then conflict has become the most common form of cooperation, right? Wuman Lanjiang: It seems...it makes sense, but can we put it another way and say it bluntly... Well, what I mean is, Mr. Wei, this secret, as long as we both know it, it's best Don't tell too many people.Let's see if Mr. Wei can find another way of saying it. Well, it's better to change it to something more grandiose. Well, that's right, it's grandiose.

Wei Xiaobao: This...you wait until I go to urinate and come back to tell you. Mist filled the river: Mr. Wei, don't run to the bedroom repeatedly to let your girlfriends teach you, why don't you just call them out, let's have a supper together, and talk while you eat. Wei Xiaobao: That's fine, wait until I call them out... What, the fog is blocking the river, what do you mean?Do I, Wei Xiaobao, need a woman to teach me?You are clearly mocking me for my ignorance, come here, put the fog in the foot-washing bucket for me! Fog filled the river: No, help!