Chapter 141 The Weight of Families on July 13

You can take my career, just keep my family, I will return to family life, which is also a kind of survival goal.Family is very important to me. Without family, many times I would be really alone in this world.The existence of the family makes me willing to carry out my career to the end, for example, I am willing to suffer.In many cases, family is an important reason why I am willing to endure humiliation, especially when it comes to children.If everything really disappeared, I might choose a wandering life.If it is not possible, you can choose to leave the world like Master Hongyi and study Buddhism, which may also be a better choice.

Yu Minhong can give up everything except his family.Mother, wife, and children are a happy family. A harmonious family is very important to him. Before her daughter was born in 1994, Yu Minhong's wife did not want to give birth to "Lao Yu" because she felt that he had always been poor, accomplished nothing, and lived a miserable life. "If you don't have children, it seems like you are going to divorce me at any time." Yu Minhong joked. In 1998, Yu Minhong was robbed twice in front of his home, feeling very unsafe, so he hurriedly applied for immigration for his wife and daughter and sent them to Canada. "I can be robbed, but I don't want any accidents with my wife and children."

In 2001, Yu Minhong had another son.Yu Minhong's mother hopes to have a grandson.After Yu Minhong got his son, Xu Xiaoping called Canada from Beijing: "Old Yu, you should hurry back, something happened to your mother." Xu Xiaoping's serious words made Yu Minhong almost collapse in fright, and he asked in surprise, "What's wrong with my mother?" Xu Xiaoping said slowly, calmly, "Your mother went to school early this morning. Followed by a pickup truck, full of red-skinned eggs, your mother has a big face, and sends out red-skinned eggs to everyone, while she distributes them, she mutters, 'I have a grandson, I have a grandson' The old lady worked hard for two days and asked someone to cook 2,000 eggs for her."

On the other end of the phone, Yu Minhong was so happy that he had already bent over laughing. Yu Minhong loves and pampers his daughter very much, but he is very strict and even harsh towards his son.In his opinion, "Daughters are expensive and pampered, while sons are hard to raise."The training goal for the daughter is to be virtuous, educated and reasonable, "the daughter is now a little beauty, who looks like her mother".My daughter and son are very good at English and Chinese. Yu Minhong often takes them back to Beijing to live for a few days, and takes them to the New Oriental Building. It’s not easy. I won’t give all my wealth to my children, but I will also leave enough living expenses for them.”

Yu Minhong has a relatively serious fear of heights, but in order to let his son get rid of the fear of heights, he adopted a "ruthless" method-leading his son to ride a roller coaster.The young son was frightened and howled loudly.Yu Minhong didn't care about that, and dragged his son to ride the roller coaster again, "I want him to experience this exciting feeling, and I want him to overcome the fear and horror in his heart." When everyone is concerned about whether you are flying high or not, only a few people, namely your dearest relatives and friends, are concerned about whether you are tired or not.The strength of reality is accumulated from the sweetness of emotional comfort, and the "familyism" of entrepreneurs is worthy of respect.

Only by handling the family relationship well can we have time to focus on our career and start a business with peace of mind.Drawing strength from family is a smart choice for entrepreneurs.