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Chapter 5 Chapter 3 Making love is like going to Disneyland? ——What do we really want?

meet the unknown self 张德芬 2006Words 2018-03-18
After a quarrel, there is usually a cold war. Ruo Ling can ignore her husband Zhiming for two or three days in a row, treating him as transparent. But this time, it turned out that the next day was sunny after the rain, and Ruo Ling's complexion was as bright as a flower. But Zhiming always felt that something was wrong.She seems to have something on her mind.For several days in a row, Ruo Ling was a little absent-minded and in a trance.There was not much talk between the two, and now there is even less intersection. The story of Ruoling and Zhiming can be described as a gifted scholar and beautiful lady.

They are college classmates.In the department of science and engineering, girls—especially girls as beautiful as Ruoling are rare, and Zhiming is tall and handsome, so it is only natural for them to walk together.After graduating from university, both of them successfully applied for scholarships from American universities, got married naturally, and studied abroad together.Ruo Ling changed to study MBA in business management, while Zhiming still studied electrical engineering for a doctorate. After returning to China, Ruoling successfully entered a foreign company with a high degree of education and a background of working in the United States. Zhiming returned to his alma mater to work as an associate professor and is now a full professor.

In short, the two have been quite stable and smooth from falling in love to getting married. There's just one problem. After marriage, Ruo Ling has never been able to conceive; Zhiming himself doesn't care, but Zhiming's traditional family seems a bit unacceptable. In the blink of an eye, they have been married for more than ten years, and their relationship has become as indifferent as passers-by. It is the so-called old couple, but it lacks the intimacy and communication between husband and wife. Begin, he said, she said.Later, they said together.Later, she said, but he didn't.In the end, she stopped talking.

Ruo Ling's thinking is extreme and has a lot of negative emotions. Every time Zhi Ming wants to talk about his own affairs, he is discouraged by Ruo Ling's barrage of negative comments. It was even more troublesome to ask her about the office.When she opened her mouth, she would say that the company has no future. The boss and colleagues are terrible, and every day in the office is a life that is not as good as a horse. As time went by, Zhiming got bored and didn't want to ask more questions, and the two gradually drifted apart spiritually. That night, Zhiming came home late after working overtime, and Ruoling had just arrived home.Both were exhausted, and no one was angry when they returned to the dreary home.

If there are children or pets at home, it can make the energy and interest of those who return home suddenly high.But there was nothing but stagnant air in their home. Zhiming was hungry, and when he saw the empty refrigerator, he was really angry.The two fought hand in hand, fighting with each other.Over the years, both sides have been the front line of fire, so there is no need to say anything, the battle is decided. A master is a master. Zhiming's words, "If you don't have children, you will always cook!" touched Ruoling's vitals, and she was furious and rushed out the door.

*** And after the adventure on that rainy night, Ruo Ling often looked thoughtful. She started thinking about things she had never thought about before. Who are we?I have never taught it in universities or research institutes, and I have never heard of it since I was a child. When they finally broke up that night, the old man left a homework for Ruo Ling to think about.The homework is: "What exactly are we after? What is it that everyone in the world wants?" *** "Manager Li, from your marketing point of view, how about entering the market from this angle after our product is upgraded?" Chen Da, the boss of the sales department, interrupted Ruo Ling's thoughts and asked coldly.

"Well, from my point of view..." Luckily, Ruo Ling reacted quickly, and could immediately turn from his thoughts and talk endlessly, otherwise he would definitely make a fool of himself at this important cadre meeting. "What exactly do we want?" Ruo Ling looked at the boss who spoke eloquently afterwards, and speculated privately. Her boss, Wang Li, is the general manager of the company's marketing. He is only in his early forties. In the process of climbing the company's ladder, he does everything he can and has a strong ambition.Presumably he wanted money - of course, who wouldn't?

When Ruoling's company acquired another small company, Wang Li was the boss of that small company.The human resource manager of a small company, either due to negligence or because he was dissatisfied with the boss, actually emailed the salary data of the whole company to everyone, so the employees knew that their boss's annual salary plus bonus was actually several million.After a general company merger and acquisition, the boss of the subsidiary company will inevitably be reduced to the "five black categories" and then quietly retire, but this Wang Li has skyrocketed and become a "popular faction"!

"He must be very rich," Ruo Ling thought, "but his ambition is still so strong, obviously power is also what he wants." "I don't agree with your point of view," Li Kui, the manager of another business department, retorted bluntly to Wang Li, "We can do this for old customers, but for new customers, we must have a more attractive point of appeal. , so that they are willing to switch to our products.” Li Kui was admitted to the hospital for liver disease two years ago, and returned to work after a year of recuperation.From then on, quit smoking, drinking and sex, it can be seen that life is like gold.

This reminded Ruo Ling: "Ah, we still need to be healthy." Beyond that, of course, everyone is after love and happiness. Ruo Ling has done the homework explained by the old man in such a short period of time, she is very satisfied with herself.exactly!Wealth, Power, Health, Love and Joy!Isn't this what everyone is after?Ruo Ling smiled complacently. "Manager Li, you're so happy. You had a good time with your husband last night, didn't you?" Huang Yukui, the marketing manager of another product department, asked Ruo Ling with his usual obsessive smile. "Huh, the meeting is already over?" Ruo Ling hated that he had something in his words, and would come to eat Huotou's tofu every time he took the opportunity. "I still have something to do, goodbye!"

Back on her seat, Ruo Ling thought about this annoying pervert, what does he want?sex?Of course he still wants to love!The guy's subordinates also disdain their boss.When going out to socialize with clients, Huang Yukui took his subordinates there, used his department's marketing funds to pay for the shower, and blatantly took the lady upstairs to "do business", which made his subordinates dumbfounded. So does sex fit into the category of "pleasure"? It should be fine, Ruo Ling thought.What kind of happiness is this person pursuing?Is that the few seconds of orgasm?It's like going down to Disneyland to play in line. It took a long time, just to have a few fun times. It's really not worthwhile.These men who pursue sexual stimulation should have a deeper motivation, right? In any case, after all, happiness is what everyone is pursuing, but why are there so few people who are truly happy?Ruo Ling is puzzled, next time she must ask the old man carefully! (to be continued)
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