Chapter 65 an aimless journey westward

In March 2003, "SOHO Tabloid" wanted to choose a topic.I suggest that the topic of this issue should be about how to look at women.China is internationalizing, and the status of women is also changing. It is almost the International Women's Day, so I will write an issue of "How to See Women". On the evening of March 8, Zhang Xin invited many friends, including women and foreigners, to hold a Women's Day PARTY.Playing late at night, everyone is very happy, especially the women. After the PARTY was over, Zhang Xin prepared a gift for all the women. I got up at 6:00 in the morning, and started the long-planned "25° Westbound".

The word plan, I have pursued it.Work must be planned, and life must be planned.The first thing I planned was to get up and run in the morning, get up at 6:00 every morning, run for 30 minutes, and turn boring movements into physical and mental exercises.I soon discovered that most of the morning walks and runs were old people, and that morning running didn't seem to make me young, but rather made me join the ranks of the old people earlier.So this morning running plan was shelved. Later, I went to Japan and found that the Japanese arranged their daily schedules in an orderly manner, every minute was not bad, and they were arranged in a row for months or half a year.After I came back, I also learned to arrange my own schedule, and I also used many tools, such as computer notepad, Outlook and so on.I soon discovered that the unplanned week went by very slowly, and the planned week went by quickly because I knew how the week would go since Monday, which was shortening my life, at least in the sense of shortening.What makes me feel even more uncomfortable is that the person you want to see and the person who wants to see you, because you can’t meet the plan, you have to line up in the plan. When the time comes, the time has passed. He may not want to see you, and you may not After seeing him, the plan became to meet people who don't want to see you, and you don't want to see them.The quality of life is declining.So I simply made such a plan for myself: Unless there are major events, generally do not arrange plans, leaving a lot of blank space and flexibility in the schedule.

For this westward trip, I wanted to be less planned and purposeful, and more casual.Someone asked me: "Are you going to develop the Northwest?" I said: "No." Someone asked me: "Sell the house?" I said: "No." Someone asked me: "Are you going to visit the poor? ?" I said, "No." "Then what are you going to do?" I said, "Nothing!" thing.I work at sunrise and rest at sunset. If I meet someone who is buried, I will go to see the burial; if I meet someone who is married, I will go to the wedding;Lack of purpose may make life more novel and meaningful.