Chapter 17 Part Two: The Blue Sky in the Mind of a Lawyer

Dear Teacher Xu: A major turning point in life often comes from a small accident, and it is because of a small accident that I got "Tuqiong Dialogue Record".The process of reading made me shed tears in the faint passion, and all the experiences of life that I had experienced came together sadly.Somewhere, I believe that you are the one who can give me encouragement and faith.I was born in Xinjiang, and my parents were intellectuals who supported the frontier in the 1970s.I am an undergraduate student in the Department of Economic Law of a university, and now I am studying international financial law at Hunan University.

postgraduate.I was attached to a company, and after working for one year, I took the exam for three years before I passed the exam.So actually I have no work experience.After studying in graduate school, I tried to find a teacher I could trust to give me some life advice, but to no avail.Disappointed, I decided to consider going abroad for further study, and then return to China to engage in international legal affairs.At the same time as this decision was made, "Tuqiong Dialogue Records" appeared in my life, which made me suppress the impulse to make a decision (you can hardly imagine the warmth and shock it brings to me).

I am a 26-year-old beautiful girl who once had a pure love. I long for love life but not for marriage. I am afraid that marriage will restrict my freedom.My ideal is to engage in international legal affairs.Because I believe that 20 years later, the focus of the world will be on China, and I am eager to apply what I have learned and devote myself to the most challenging career.I have been working in this direction.Financially, I had little savings and my family couldn't afford to support me. This is my general situation, Mr. Xu, do you think I should choose to go abroad at this time?What is the most reasonable way to plan my future?Because I always have a pure heart, I often feel heavy and painful when facing life.I long for someone to clear the fog for me, Mr. Xu, write me a reply, write a reply to me personally, okay?

Your student, Ning Xin Xu Xiaoping remembers the conversation with Ning Xin: Ning Xin arrived in Beijing one morning after the Spring Festival of the Year of the Goat. I met her in the office at three o'clock in the afternoon.She came to Beijing from Changsha on a special trip.Before that, she had already contacted me several times, and tried every means to have an interview with me.What's wrong with Ning Xin? As soon as we met, I asked her: Is your major easy to find a job?She said it was easy to find. I asked: Where do you work?She said that both Chinese and foreign law firms are fine.Am I sure?She said that people with her profession are rare, so it must be easy to find.Especially in a center of economic activity like Shanghai, foreign-related lawyers are very popular.

I asked: How much money can I earn in the first year?She said it was about 100,000 yuan.I said two years, three years, five years?She said that it depends on your working ability. After you have experience, it is not a problem to earn hundreds of thousands a year. I asked: Are you capable?She said of course I have!I asked: Do you dare to go to Shanghai to find a job?In about three years, I will become a foreign-related lawyer with an annual salary of six figures and a higher level every year! Ning Xin said: Of course I dare!Sure can, as long as I want! I said, well, it's a deal, you go back.You have no problem.

Congratulations, pull hands, goodbye! Ning Xin stared at me closely, tears streaming from her eyes.These tears, in addition to feeling sorry for her unjustly spent train tickets, are also grateful and happy for me to solve the problem that entangles her like cancer so easily and quickly-I swept away the "study abroad unconsciousness" that was pressing in her heart like a nightmare in one fell swoop. ’ and ‘employment unconsciousness’. Ning Xin, who is about to be 29 years old after graduating with a master's degree, has little savings in her family, and specializes in foreign-related lawyers, she will give up the lawyer in China that can bring her the most job security, social status, ample income, and happiness in life, and spend another three or four years instead. Studying abroad for one year is simply the most absurd self-defeating behavior in the 21st century. It is equivalent to exercising asthma and not being addicted to it. If you insist on contracting SARS, you will let it go!

Congratulations, pull hands, goodbye! Lawyer - what a job, what a sexy word! Ning Xin - what a beautiful, smart, and extremely cute girl! To this day, I am still proud and thrilled by the conversation I had with you, and I am delighted by your wisdom and confidence.You don't have any problems, but I really don't know why you have to spend hundreds of dollars to come to Beijing, just to have a look at Mr. Xu, who has nothing to look at. The dislocation of values ​​has caused Chinese college students to waste hundreds of dollars or even a lifetime of happiness! After the conversation, I asked Ning Xin what is her plan?She said: Go back to Changsha!It seems that Changsha is just north of the Fourth Ring Road in Beijing.I said that there happened to be a box of over-ordered lunch here. If you don't mind, I'll heat it up and you can eat it. I can watch you eat it.After eating you go to catch the train.

Congratulations, pull hands, goodbye! This girl is so cute!The only pity is that some mist of life often covers them, making their happy life, which was originally blooming like flowers and brocades, always artificially messy. But I am happy, I have washed away the turbidity for a student, I have dispelled the dark clouds for a soul, and I have given a clear blue sky to the beautiful dream of a young man. The sky in the liberated area is blue sky—clear and sparkling water, blue sky! In the minds of contemporary college students, how many people are still crying outdated values, how many people are calling for the liberated area of ​​the soul!

Ning Xin left soon, but she wrote me a letter soon.The following is a letter from her after meeting me. Xu Xiaoping Dear Teacher Xu: I had a face-to-face conversation with you on February 17th. I am very grateful to you for giving me this opportunity to meet. I think my life will start a new page with unprecedented joy and pain!Thank you for helping me strengthen my professional belief in being a lawyer. The blueprint for future development is as clear and charming as the clear sky after the rain. For me, the more important help may be that you prompted me to reflect on my female values ​​and understanding of a happy life.I feel sad that in the past 20 years of beautiful life, I have been standing on the edge of unconsciousness for many problems in the past. The cup of life is full of nectar and no one is drinking. I am almost crying for myself!The nature that God has given to human beings should radiate her most natural and charming light.For this reason, I have the courage to carry out a spiritual revolution to the end.

The deepest love and help from someone you love, trust and respect is enough to give a weak soul its greatest strength.At the same time, dear teacher Xu, I feel a kind of strength of personality from you, capturing the brilliance of humanity that I am looking for and deeply longing for.I am very moved by this, and even more excited, because these may be the spiritual motivation to make my life roll forward in the direction I love! As I write this, the first spring thunder in Changsha this year is rumbling outside my window. The deep voice rolls over the sky, full of restlessness and restlessness full of vitality.I can't hold my tears anymore, I love this low hoarse bang, I love all the power in life that is vigorous and undisguised.Dear Teacher Xu, if we all have this kind of power, may they live forever!I sing for them!

Your student, Ning Xin