Chapter 9 Chapter 8 Growth and Transformation

Chapter 8 Growth and Transformation ——With the awareness of your behavior, thoughts, feelings, emotions and other patterns, you change, and your world changes with it (partially omitted...) The training course of life potential is designed in four stages according to the process of the "Great Learning", which is to acquire knowledge, be sincere, cultivate one's morality and family, govern the country and the world, and put the theory into practice in order to become the wisdom in life.The first stage, we call it the junior class of the journey of wisdom, which is to study things and learn knowledge.The so-called "ge" is contact, through contact with others and the external environment, to perceive the changes and reasons within oneself.In this course, we start with the concept of "I am the root of everything" to decipher the results of our own life in the past, and use other people's time and experience to turn around and understand that I am the root of everything.In the rush of life, take two days to stop and get to know yourself and your patterns of behavior, thought, feeling, and emotion, which of them are automatic reactions, and which of these automatic reactions are life Which ones bring creativity and good results, and which ones bring limitations and constraints to life?

On the road of developing the potential of life, no teacher can tell you what is right and what is wrong. You still have to choose whether you are good or bad, and you must learn from the potential deep in your heart.In the beginner class of the journey of wisdom, you will begin to experience the experience of entering into yourself. In addition to insight, there are also some awakenings in life.Starting from the elementary class, we not only live in the field of knowledge, but also start to prepare for stepping into the palace of life wisdom.The elementary class is an enlightenment, from "I am the root of everything" to the training and learning of awareness, from knowledge to entering the palace of life wisdom.When you are ready to explore deeper places in your life with greater courage in the elementary class, we have prepared the intermediate class for you.

The most important thing about the intermediate class of the Journey of Wisdom is that affliction is Bodhi, that is, from sincerity to righteousness.The inner world naturally began to change due to more awareness, and entered into a righteous heart.At that time, your inner view of the external world will be different, your heart will find its own center point, and then you will reach the stage of self-cultivation.In this course, we will help you face the trauma, pain and troubles deep in your life, and let the wisdom of life gradually blossom in the field of your potential.During this process, you may feel a little confused, and you may also experience some pain that you have been unwilling to admit or avoid in your past life. Therefore, in the intermediate class, there are some people who are ready or have great courage. Bravery The ground is in contact with life and begins to seek Bodhi from troubles.After the three-day intermediate class, most people naturally become more courageous, wiser, and more mature people. Of course, they must also be happier, because they have decided to leave the harmony of appearances and bravely face reality. Explore the world, prepare to contact, face up to, and accept some truths of life.

The third stage of life potential, we call it the advanced class of the journey of wisdom, also known as "self-parenting remodeling", which is the self-cultivation, family governance and country governance proposed in "University" and then the world.Your behavior, personality, body, speech and manners will naturally change, and then you will enter the stage of Qi Family, which means that your interpersonal relationship and family will naturally change accordingly, and you will begin to affect the people around you. People, and governing the country and the world is a natural extension.We know that all thoughts, personalities, and all subconscious automatic patterns today are formed from childhood interactions with parents, elders, and the environment. As mentioned earlier, if we have a father like Washington, I think we Will be as brave and honest as he is.The "self-parenting reshaping" referred to by the advanced class is not going home to reshape our parents, but going deep into our subconscious to clearly see the influence of our past parents on us, and then reshape in our hearts "that can give unconditional love" parents".Because you have already begun to be able to get in touch with your own troubles in the intermediate class. When those troubles appear, you will have pain in real life, and you will be more sensitive to feel some confusion, so in the advanced class we need to reshape "Parents" who can give themselves unconditional love, care and support.When there are troubles in life, we can get support within ourselves, so the advanced class is also called "Self Support".In the four days, you will not only experience reshaping your inner perfect "parents" to heal some of your pain, and seek Bodhi from troubles, but also learn its skills.After completing the advanced class, you are ready to practice and apply it in your own life.Finally, we arranged a one-year growth support group. It takes forty-five weeks a year, three hours a week, and a group of people who can also experience their own troubles and are learning how to be themselves. Supportive people grow together.Of course some people have been able to use those skills well after completing the advanced class.But because everyone starts differently, and some people may have some difficulties in time, so we specially design long-term courses to help you develop your life potential, and gradually make self-support a new way through group support. Habits become a kind of wisdom in your own life.In fact, thousands of people have undergone dramatic changes in their lives so far. Their inner world has changed, so their careers, families, their behaviors, thoughts, concepts, and even their bodies have also changed. .

Last year, my own body also underwent a huge change. I had the courage to face the fact that I had been escaping from my overweight body, so I lost 12 kilograms in just one month.Originally, I had suffered from ankylosing myelitis on my back for more than ten years, but in less than half a year, the pain was relieved by more than 80%.In the past eight years, on the way of developing life potential, countless people have undergone tremendous changes in their lives. Of course, their hearts and souls have gradually calmed down. There are three main drives for a person's growth and transformation: the first is pain, the second is boredom, and the third is revelation.Even if a person does not want to grow and change, when he encounters countless pains, he hits a wall when he walks east, hits a big bag when he walks west, stumbles when he walks north, and encounters setbacks when he walks south, when he accumulates a lot of pain and has no When you choose to die with courage, you will start to think: "What is wrong with me? Do I need to make some changes?" At this time, the so-called "painful experience" will make us start on the road of growth. (partially omitted...)

Of course, there will be many revelations in the training courses. In each of our activities, it is possible to experience areas and feelings that have never been experienced in previous lives.We design these three dynamics to impact each other in the course, so that a person can embark on the road of growth. Most importantly, when this journey reaches a certain stage, when troubles, that is, bodhi, become the wisdom of life, you will suddenly discover the true The transformation that begins to happen does not come from trying desperately to change, but from accepting yourself.In the past, we always wanted to change, but we couldn't change. We often regard the place that we think needs to be changed as a shortcoming, and this part of our life as an enemy. Please think about it when you face the enemy When, what method will you take?I think the first one is trying to beat it, destroy it.Then when you feel you can't beat it, you avoid it.This is the attitude that most people will take towards their enemies. However, as mentioned earlier, energy is indestructible, and the emotional part of your life is also a kind of energy. It cannot be eliminated or destroyed. You can only make it Suppress it.When it is suppressed, it will go to other levels of life, but it still affects and controls us.When we take the second way—by retreating from our enemies, we rationalize it, downplay it, and think it is over.But in the same way, it has not passed, it has been affecting and controlling us in our lives, at every level, which is why we want to change, but can't change, so the real transformation is not that we want to block it, True transformation comes from acceptance.In other words, when you reach a certain stage in the journey of life potential, when afflictions are Bodhi, and you can get in touch with afflictions and pain, when the ratio of expectation and fear exceeds 50%, it is time to have heard In the state of joy, you will begin to know that life is not understood at the level of intellectual knowledge, but at the level of deep wisdom.When you discover that every part of your life helped you survive, and you begin to thank those parts of your life that you thought were your enemies, your shortcomings, and your friends, then our Attitude naturally does not treat enemies as if they want to destroy them, defeat them, or run from them.When we treat them as friends, we want to get close to them and know them, and when we start to get close to them, these parts will dissolve in our lives, become part of our life energy, and enter our unity , their energy begins to be absorbed by us, and then the real transformation begins to take place, and it is natural and fast, and it is impossible to stop even if we want to stop. It's a feeling that blossoms deep inside.

(partially omitted...) If your idea of ​​growth and transformation is just trying to be a certain kind of person, then you will be miserable because it is not true, and it is not worth it.During the whole process, every different self, every different moment is worth your enjoyment.The quality of life is improving day by day, and every day you will see a different world and yourself because of the transformation.So the whole growth and transformation is a process of awareness, not a goal or purpose. If you can understand the three characteristics of growth and transformation—pain, boredom, and enlightenment, which are the source of the power of growth, then you will walk more smoothly and more freely on the path of developing your life's potential.