Chapter 111 accept friends with an open heart

An open mind includes being open to the opinions and criticisms of your friends.Only those who are good at absorbing opinions can grow the fastest. If you are open and forgiving, you will have more and better friends.Everyone in this world has different personalities, temperaments, hobbies, dispositions and thoughts from others, and there is no distinction between good and bad personalities.You can't alienate or even reject a person just because his personality is inconsistent with him.People are inherently unique individuals. Maybe each of us has encountered people we can't understand and hate, but many years later, we will find that their lives are as good as ours, or even better.Labeling a person's personality as inferior or inferior is one of the stupidest things you can do.

One of the purposes of our network building is to increase the external force for our own development. Friends who can give us advice are the most precious friends in the world.Looking for friends everywhere, looking for advice from friends, is the embodiment of rationality and maturity.Knowing how and where to get support and advice is one of life's wisdom. So where to start is a key question.First of all, it is your parents. Parents are the best teachers for children.They not only give you advice in life, remind you to brush your teeth frequently, eat more vegetables and miscellaneous grains, but also teach you the first social experience in life. At least half of the common sense of social life comes from parents, especially in childhood.Secondly, it is your friends. Everyone has a deep understanding of the role of friends to us, sharing the worries that worry parents but cannot tell them, and sharing the joy of peers.Our growth has always been intertwined with friends.When we are adults, there are also many professional family counselors, such as lawyers, bankers, and relatives, bosses-anyone who is older, experienced, and well-connected, and every time you get to know another person, You will get a new idea from it.They literally open your mind and change your life.So, you must always remember to make more friends, and at the same time you must keep an open mind to every concept.