Chapter 57 Chapter 4 bedwetting dream

Well, as I write this, I suddenly feel a little embarrassed.Readers may wish to guess why I am suddenly embarrassed.The reason is that although I acted professionally when interpreting the above dreams, I was not humorous at all.So I decided to "rectify and return to evil" immediately, and have a good time.The following is my self-analysis of some of the dreams I have seen frequently. bedwetting dream I got up in the middle of the night in the cold winter months, staggered to the toilet, and before I was about to urinate, I must touch the toilet with my hands, and only after I was sure that it was indeed my new home, did I carefully start to purge the excess in my body. Water called urine is excreted from the body.Often the first thing that happens after I make that important decision and put it into practice is that I feel a warm sensation in my crotch.This warm feeling in the cold winter bed will give me an instant pleasure in my sleep, but I soon realized that something seemed wrong, because this warm feeling should not happen during normal urination.While my dazed mind was still wondering if that warm feeling in my crotch was normal, my freed piss was pouring deep into the thick cotton pad.Finally, I woke up with a start. At that time, my crotch had already turned into a water town.

After many bed-wetting experiences, I realized a truth: don’t trust your sense of sight and touch easily, otherwise why would I see and touch the toilet every time, but when I really start peeing, the toilet is gone.One of my patients said to me that it was only possible for me to know him after seeing a movie.That movie was called "The Matrix," and the movie made an interesting hypothesis: that humans are creatures that grow out of a matrix tissue that has been specifically digitally programmed.In the primordial digital world, all human senses are but digital virtuals.If the dream is judged by the assumption of the movie of the parent organization, can't the dream also be regarded as a kind of digital fiction.

Psychological analysis of bedwetting dreams: Bedwetting can be caused by physiological factors, psychological factors, or a combination of physical and mental factors.For children's bedwetting, parents always think that it is caused by the child's physiological factors and bad habits.But in fact, psychological factors often account for a considerable proportion. After a child is born, his ability to control his body is very limited.For a baby, learning to gradually control the life channel means gradually maturing mental abilities. Eyes: the main input channel of life information.

Ear: The second most important input channel for life information. Nose: the input channel of oxygen as life force and the output channel of life exhaust gas. Mouth: the input channel of life nutrition. Anus: Exit channel for body waste. Penis: the output channel of blood waste and the output channel of sperm as the seed of life. Female urethra: Egress channel for blood waste only. Vagina: Entry channel for sperm and output channel for baby. Nipple: Nutrient output channel for feeding the baby. Bedwetting means lack of urethral control, and the acquisition of urethral control is a learning process in itself.A healthy child can gain control of his urethra after only a few bedwetting sessions.Gaining control over the urethra, as an important step in a child's psychological growth, can be said to be an important milestone for a child to gain self-confidence.Especially for boys, because of the dual functions of the penis itself, when the urination function of the penis is controlled by the boy, the boy subconsciously develops the original confidence in his masculinity for the first time.According to this way of thinking, when the penis starts to perform its second important function "ejaculation", the control of semen will also encounter the same problem, that is "nocturnal emission".

Bedwetting is always a shame for a child, and it can be a serious blow to a child's self-esteem.Although nocturnal emission is also a topic of ridicule by others, compared with bed-wetting, nocturnal emission has another positive meaning.Because boys will think proudly, I am now a man with a "spirit" to leave behind.Since you keep the semen in your sleep, why not find a way to put the semen where it should be.Although such an idea is natural, it is not easy to implement in practice.That grown-up man will one day find that when he does get to the place where he can ejaculate where it should be, his penis won't work again, and that embarrassment is called impotence.Even if he is lucky enough to send his semen where he wants it, his semen will be released prematurely without control. This embarrassment is called premature ejaculation.After some men complete the task of insemination, their penis is still firm. This kind of embarrassment is called yang strength.

It can be seen from the above that from bedwetting to wet dreams, impotence, premature ejaculation, and impotence, the core is the control of the penis. Any form of failure to control the penis is the cause of a man's inferiority complex, and bedwetting is the first time a man faces the penis. A question of control.Because of the separation of the urethra and vagina, girls suffer from less psychological pressure than boys. From the perspective of biological evolution, the penis and urethra have been the product of millions of years.The control of the penis and urethra should actually be no problem, but after humans, these have become problems.The reason is that human thought and ethics have put shackles on human primitive instincts.An important factor in bedwetting is the inner anxiety of the child caused by improper parental discipline. This anxiety disrupts the child's natural learning of urination.There can be many psychological meanings of bedwetting, we might as well list them:

Negative meaning: *Bed-wetting is the projection of "castration anxiety", because the ego makes the penis appear helpless and weak in sleep because of fear of the penis causing trouble, in order to escape the fate of being castrated. *Bed-wetting is a child's self-abuse.In the winter, a child who wets the bed is likely to immerse himself in the agonizing dampness of a cold wet sheet. *Bed-wetting is an expression of aggression.Children punish their parents by wetting the bed (keep the parents busy washing the sheets). *Bed-wetting is an identification with an inferiority complex.

Positive meaning: * Bedwetting is the return of the child's memory of the womb.When the baby is first soaked in warm urine, it feels like returning to the mother's womb. *Bed-wetting is the original expression of a child's free will, "I can urinate anywhere I want". *Bedwetting is Ben's sweaty dance in my sleep. *Bedwetting is the babbling of the penis and urethra. It can be seen from the above that the meaning of bedwetting is very rich.Even the child's bedwetting, wise parents can also gain insight into the child's inner world.Life is like a continuous stream, any drop of water, even a child's urine contains infinite meaning of life.When the child's parents can and are willing to interpret the rich content of the child's inner world from the child's bedwetting behavior, then the child can grow up comprehensively and healthily.