Chapter 34 Chapter Thirty-Four

I have magical powers. When I get along with people, I know how to influence the thoughts and actions of others. This methodology alone, used properly, has brought many ambitious men throughout history to the pinnacles of fame, wealth, and power. Sadly, only a few know they possess such power, and most have to pay a considerable price for their ignorance, in failure and suffering: friends depart, doors of hope close, chance Gone, the dream is shattered. Until now, I have been one of the miserable masses who, ignorant of my own abilities, have squandered many opportunities for success and happiness.

The parchment opened my eyes.The secret is so simple that even a child can understand it and use it instinctively.We should treat others the way we want others to treat us, so that we can influence others.We are a lot like each other, with the same feelings, the same emotions, the same hopes, the same fears, the same mistakes, and the same blood.Everyone's pain is related, and a smile will always usher in goodwill. I used to be very ignorant, but now I realize that I can't achieve success by relying on myself alone. Successful people are good at relying on the strength of others. Similarly, without the help of others, I will not achieve my goals.Knowing this, I deeply regret my previous actions.

Will others help me succeed? Whenever I frown, there must be a frown in return. Whenever I yell in anger, the voice of anger returns to me. Harsh stares pierced me every time I complained. Whenever I curse, the eyes of hatred must look back at me. I live in a world without smiles, a world of failures.I have always blamed others for making things difficult for me, and now I know that the problem lies with me. I finally opened my eyes. I no longer have difficulty with people. I smile, at friends and foes alike, and try to find in them the qualities to be admired, for I recognize that human nature deeply craves admiration.In fact, each of us has something worthy of praise, and what I have to do is to express the praise from the heart.

Praise, smile, show concern, we are both givers and beneficiaries, bringing good life to others and creating miracles for ourselves.A smile is the cheapest gift I can give to others, but it has the power to shake people's hearts.Those whom I praise also find in me virtues which they had overlooked before. I no longer have difficulty with people. The days of complaining and complaining are over.There's nothing easier than finding fault.It takes no talent, no self-denial, no brains, no personality to get a foothold in the whiner business.I can't waste my time complaining, it's detrimental to my personality and no one wants to work with me.That was my old life, and it's not coming anymore.

I'm glad to have this opportunity to renew myself. I wasted many years of opportunity by complaining, whining, and looking at the world with anger.Including the doors that could have been opened by a smile, and the helping hand that could have been touched by a kind word.I'm only now beginning to learn one of the great art of living -- creating opportunities for myself, capturing them. I no longer have difficulty with people. After all, a smile and a handshake are both expressions of love.Now I know that life is not made of great sacrifices and responsibilities but of little things like smiles and kindness and small duties.Give this as often as you can, and be able to touch any heart, the best thing in life is caring.Kind words resonate with people's spirits.From this a beautiful imagination arises.It makes the listener feel relieved, peaceful and comfortable, and at the same time feel ashamed of his own obedience, depression and other bad emotions.This language is very rich and can be used in many situations.I didn't realize its role before, and I will practice more in the future to learn to use this language, because it is related to my happiness.

I no longer have difficulty with people. I have found that in everyday life, love and admiration are earned through the small, visible acts of kindness that often occur each day, or even hour, in a person's words, tones of voice, gestures, and expressions.A kind person can easily infect those around him with his happiness, and a kind heart is like a fountain of happiness, making everyone around him shine with laughter.Every night before I go to bed, I thank myself for making at least one person happier or wiser, or at least more satisfied with myself. If I can live up to the vows I made here, how can I fail from this moment on when the air I breathe will shine with love and good hope?

I no longer have difficulty with people.