Chapter 40 TECHNIQUE 36 THE EXPERTS DO NOT BATTER
Suppose you are dining at a fancy restaurant.You inadvertently look at the next table, and who do you find?Is that really him?how is this possible?Must just look like him.No, no, really... Woody Allen.The glittering superstar is sitting there alive and within 10 feet of you.what should you do
don't do anything!Let this celebrity enjoy being nobody.If he's looking your way, give him a smile and nod, then turn your gaze back to your tablemate.If you handle the situation calmly, your fellow travelers will think you're cool.
A great communicator with the style of a big shot doesn't blah blah blah blah blah.When chatting with a celebrity, don't praise his work, just express how much joy and inspiration you get from it.If you really bring up the topic of works or achievements, it is best to talk about the other party's current or recent performance.Don't dig out old records that have turned yellow. If there is a drone sitting next to the queen bee, remember to include him in your conversation as well.
Assuming you can't resist this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, be sure to come forward and show your admiration and teach you a way without losing grace.Once you've finished your meal and paid your bill, which obviously won't take up too much of that celebrity's time, you can go up and chat.Say something like "Mr. Allen, I just want to tell you that your work has brought me great joy over the years. Thank you." Do you understand the subtle differences?You are not praising his work.If you are talking about works, he will think, "What kind of role are you, what qualifications do you have to decide whether I am a great director?" As an audience, you can only speak from your perspective, you can say, his The work brings you a lot of joy. If the celebrity decides that this is enough, use your body language to let him know that you appreciate the opportunity to speak to him.However, if the celebrity thinks you're interesting (or decides to go down tonight and chat with ordinary people), then you're well worth the bet.It's all up to you and enjoy this rare opportunity.If the other party repeatedly expresses that they want to resign, you have to leave wisely.You can think of yourself as a beginner waltz student and the other party as a dance teacher.Let him lead and you dance with him.Let him tell you when the dance is over. Assuming a famous person has company, and you've been having a conversation with him for a while, you should switch the conversation a little bit to the person he's traveling with.People who appear next to celebrities are usually very smart.
A great communicator with the style of a big shot doesn't blah blah blah blah blah.When chatting with a celebrity, don't praise his work, just express how much joy and inspiration you get from it.If you really bring up the topic of works or achievements, it is best to talk about the other party's current or recent performance.Don't dig out old records that have turned yellow. If there is a drone sitting next to the queen bee, remember to include him in your conversation as well.
Assuming you can't resist this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, be sure to come forward and show your admiration and teach you a way without losing grace.Once you've finished your meal and paid your bill, which obviously won't take up too much of that celebrity's time, you can go up and chat.Say something like "Mr. Allen, I just want to tell you that your work has brought me great joy over the years. Thank you." Do you understand the subtle differences?You are not praising his work.If you are talking about works, he will think, "What kind of role are you, what qualifications do you have to decide whether I am a great director?" As an audience, you can only speak from your perspective, you can say, his The work brings you a lot of joy. If the celebrity decides that this is enough, use your body language to let him know that you appreciate the opportunity to speak to him.However, if the celebrity thinks you're interesting (or decides to go down tonight and chat with ordinary people), then you're well worth the bet.It's all up to you and enjoy this rare opportunity.If the other party repeatedly expresses that they want to resign, you have to leave wisely.You can think of yourself as a beginner waltz student and the other party as a dance teacher.Let him lead and you dance with him.Let him tell you when the dance is over. Assuming a famous person has company, and you've been having a conversation with him for a while, you should switch the conversation a little bit to the person he's traveling with.People who appear next to celebrities are usually very smart.