Chapter 38 Five-element personality, stimulate your own spiritual energy

We often say that "things of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups". People are in groups, and everyone is surrounded by a group of people. What combination is this group of people linked together? When we meet a person, if we feel particularly good, there are only two situations. One is that the person has a very good appearance, and we feel very comfortable when we see it; feel.The first type of person may not be able to get together with me, because our affection for him is only one-sided, and people may not necessarily agree with us; while the second type of person will definitely be able to hit it off with us, because everyone can identify with each other .For example, when we were in school, when we first entered a school, class, or student club, we immediately felt that some people were very compatible with us and were very speculative, so we quickly got closer to them; I don't correspond to myself, I don't speculate, and my personality, hobbies and other aspects are very different from ours, so the relationship is a little bit alienated.After graduating, only those who are similar to their own temperament will keep in touch, and the others will not be in touch, and if they do, there is nothing to say.

It is easy for people with similar temperaments to engage in the same occupation, and only a group of people with similar temperaments can do a job well.For example, in a company, the turnover of personnel is very fast, they are always recruiting and leaving, and those "hardcore employees" who have always stuck to the company must be of similar temperament, and their temperament also determines the quality of the company. temperament.There are many reasons for employees to leave the company, but the most important thing is that this person does not match the temperament of the unit. He has to find people who are like him, and the company also rejects employees who do not match his temperament. Get up, it's no wonder you don't leave.

A person's circle of classmates, colleagues, and friends are all formed in this way, and of course the circle of relatives is even more so. "If you are not a family, you don't belong to a family", so I won't say much here. I often hear people complain: "In this society, honest people suffer. People will bully you if you don't have a dark heart, a thick skin, or a little bit of badness." In fact, you can't blame others for being bad. What happened to you?You are too yin qi, so the people who gather around you must be yin qi people, intriguing, never having a bright future, this is inevitable.When you are full of yang and righteousness, people with yin qi will not dare or want to provoke you, while other people with yang qi will gather around you, and everyone will form a good environment together, and you will feel that there are people around you Good man, life is full of sunshine.

Let me take my own example.Although I dare not advertise how perfect I am, I have been trying to make myself wholeheartedly good.Therefore, over the years, the people around me, including relatives, friends, classmates, and colleagues, are very good. I treat them well, and they have never bullied me.Many years ago, I shared a house with strangers. Many friends who have shared renting experience like to complain that the people they share with them have many problems and are not easy to get along with, but the people who share with me are always so kind and open.So I am full of confidence in all the people I interact with, they are all inspired by my heart: if my heart is good, then they must be good; if my heart has bad thoughts, Then, let people like me who are inspired by unwholesome thoughts be my "preceptors" and teach me a lesson.

Some people may ask: there are so many bad people around me now, what should I do?I said, very simple, you can change the people around you.As long as our hearts become righteous, we have compassion, tolerance, and gentleness, and we no longer believe that only by getting worse can we not be bullied, then those unkind people who gathered around us will gradually alienate us, and eventually Disappear from our lives; and those who are as good as us will slowly approach us and eventually become our best friends.The people around us change.Of course, some people cannot disappear from our lives, such as parents, wives, husbands, and children, but as long as we become better, they will be influenced one day.The power of good thoughts and evil thoughts is the same as the forces in nature, and their effects are always mutual. If I am kind to others, they will be kind to me, and if I am evil to others, they will be evil to me.I've changed, and they'll have a big change too.Do not believe it?You try, stick to it, be a good person and you will not suffer.

To dispel the gloom is not just to dispel the gloom in someone's heart, but more importantly, to dispel the gloom in our whole world.We know that the world we live in is not ideal. Many places are cold and bleak, and many places are sweltering and hot, so many people feel unhappy living in it. Cultivating the heart is not raising the heart of a certain person, but the heart of the whole society.We can look at today's society, where is the heart?I can't find it, it's gone.The ancients said that the Xiqi of King Wen of Zhou had 30,000 people with one heart, but with King Zhou of Shang, there were as many hearts as there were people, so one flourishes and one declines.The latter's heart is scattered, how can it not decline?Just like a person who loses concentration and needs to concentrate to do things better.

Fuyang is not to support a person's yang, but to support a society's yang.Let's see, are the websites or newspapers, literature or academics we come into contact with now supporting Yang or storing Yin?The website is full of negative news, trivial and obscene gossip, grievances and obscene mentalities in literature and academia, all of which are tainted. In a society, there are so many things like this, how can people have any fighting spirit.The gloom can only become more and more intense, people's hearts can only become more and more scattered, and the righteousness in the hearts of society can only become thinner and thinner.In our age, people suffer from many mental illnesses, as well as physical illnesses, and these are also related.

During the Lantern Festival this year, the air in Beijing still smells of Chinese New Year. A young man came back from his hometown and told me about his feelings during this trip.He said: "I was almost entangled by them!" It turned out that he stayed in Beijing for a whole year last year and rarely went out. The channels for obtaining outside information mainly depended on the Internet and his circle of friends.The Internet is filled with countless negative news, all kinds of angry or pessimistic remarks, and most of his circle of friends are "angry youths", complaining about society all day long.He is very pessimistic after being in contact with these things, and often feels that this society is about to end, and he has no motivation to do anything.But after he returned home, he traveled a lot in small towns and villages in the local area, met many people, and found that it was not the case.In rural areas, people's living standards are getting higher and better every year, and road traffic is getting better every year. In small cities, people's lives are leisurely and prosperous, and there is not so much poverty, backwardness, and corruption that are portrayed on the Internet.Therefore, his confidence increased greatly, and he felt that the society is still the same, but his own mentality has changed.After realizing this truth, he felt like a different person.

Looking at the bright side of society is helping the society and our own souls.The sunshine of virtue in our hearts will melt the cold and ailments, and we will be able to live in a healthy, peaceful and harmonious way throughout our lives, free from the troubles of upside-down dreams and diseases. In fact, this is the purpose of our book.This book provides us with a practical way, do you believe it?This is an experiment, but it can't be done on animals, and it can't be done on other people, only on yourself.The theory of this experiment was passed down from the ancestors, and it uses the traditional cultural way of thinking, which is consistent with the basic principles of Chinese medicine. The experiment itself has been done on many people. Do you dare to bet?If you win, you win everything, if you lose, you have nothing to lose.

I have a friend who works in a hospital. When he sees such a patient, he complains all day long: "The hospital is too disgraceful. I stopped taking the medicine for a while without paying the medical bills. Are you saving people or collecting money? ? These bills, medical records and prescriptions are all kept for me. After I leave the hospital, I will ask someone to check them. If there is a problem with the checks, I will sue them!" "The doctor didn't do his duty conscientiously, and even asked an intern to examine me!" "Many tests and treatments in Western medicine are simply wrong!"

"So-and-so is really not enough friends. I used to be so good to him, but now he disappears when I'm sick; so-and-so is hypocritical, he came to see me and left before I stayed for half an hour; so-and-so stayed It takes a little longer, but you always sit so far away from me, are you afraid of contagion? In fact, my disease is not contagious, and I am really afraid of death!" "And my son, I don't come back to see me when I'm sick, but he still wants to study at school."... It's just such a person, who is not very old, less than fifty years old, and was not seriously ill at first, but later some complications occurred, what a pity! what reason?The resentment is too heavy, and the Yin Qi in my heart has accumulated too much.Just as at night, without sunlight, the flowers will close, and at winter, the sky is cold and everything withers.Accumulating resentment and yin in the heart is creating a dark and cold environment in the body.Yin and cold dominate condensation, just as water will freeze when it is cold, similarly, in a human body full of yin and cold, the movement and transformation will inevitably slow down, and various condensations will also occur, such as stones, tuberculosis, tumors, ascites, etc. , isn’t it all condensed?Without the warmth of the sun, these cold condensations can only condense bigger and bigger, and finally the whole body condenses into a cold piece—death.The patient is taking this invisible poison, no matter how good the medical conditions are, it will be in vain! Before the formation of the heaven and the earth, it was a chaos. Later, the yang energy rose and became the sky, and the yin energy descended to become the earth. After the heaven and the earth, there were four seasons and all things.The same is true for human beings. A newborn baby is basically in a state of chaos. When he gradually grows up, influenced by the surrounding environment and educated by the elders, he begins to understand, and then begins to divide yin and yang, and heaven and earth.When heaven and earth are separated, personality can be established. So, how is this world divided?According to traditional Chinese psychology and the way of dealing with the world, to find the virtues of others is to regard the light and uplifting as the sky, and to recognize one's own faults is to regard the heavy and turbid as the earth.This is a basic principle of life and conduct.In this way, a person gradually distinguishes between good and evil, beauty and ugliness, good and bad.Recognize what virtue is from others, and at the same time step on your own shortcomings and mistakes. Some people may say: I am not like this, I only look for my own benefits, and not others, how about it?Then I dare say, this person must be living a life of yin and yang upside down, the sky is dark and the earth is dark!Why?Looking at other people's faults, it's not right to only think about Zhang San every day, and it's not right for Li Si, that is, the lightness of life cannot rise, and if it falls, it is a violent wind; looking for your own benefits, thinking about yourself every day What is right and what is done well is that the heavy and turbid things cannot condense, and if they run to the sky, it is flying sand and rocks, and the sky is full of dust.Isn't it just dark?People live in a harsh environment, how can interpersonal relationships be good?How can you not be unlucky in doing things?How can you be happy?How can the body not get sick? After the human world is established, it cannot be done once and for all, but must persist in accumulating Yang Qi and eliminating Yin Qi.Always thinking about the good of others is like accumulating sunlight, which can warm the heart and nourish the heart; often looking for the shortcomings of others, the heart will be gloomy, and it will definitely hurt the body. When you think of the good of others, your heart will be warm, you will be happy, and you will see the good and think of others, so that you can also develop towards the good side.Hello, others will also treat you well, which will make you feel happier. Where are there any troubles and diseases? Why can some people form good karma, and everyone likes them wherever they go?It is because he is good at seeing the good of others, so he himself absorbs many good points of others and becomes better and better, so good people get close to him, and bad people are either influenced by him to become better, or they automatically stay away from him.Therefore, he will soon find that his social circle is full of good people, and everyone enjoys being together. Thinking about other people's disadvantages is accumulating negative energy for yourself.People have some conscious or unconscious imitation psychology. It is often easier to imitate bad things than good things.For example, a high school student sees other people smoking in the class, so he has a reason to smoke: Everyone else smokes, why should I feel guilty?It never occurred to him to learn the good things about others.Even if we don't imitate, if we always stare at the bad aspects of others, we will accumulate resentment in our hearts. This kind of resentment is the most hurtful, hurting ourselves and hurting others. We saw many people who walked into the hospital calmly, even talking and laughing, but when they saw the test sheet with "certain cancer" written on it, they immediately became stupid at that moment.Often he was startled, his limbs felt cold, and his whole body tensed up. From then on, he became a different person, the tone of his speech and the way he walked changed.The disease is still the same, and there are still so many cancer cells. What has changed?Mindset changed!At this moment, my heart was overwhelmed by the test sheet, and I succumbed, and the disease began to deteriorate rapidly at this time. After getting sick, there was an extra layer of shadow in his heart. From then on, he focused too much on his illness, kept it in his memory, never forgot it, coupled with lack of confidence, every slight change in his opinion was the deterioration of his illness, and he could not forget it all the time. To make him more fearful and uneasy is to add sickness to illness and injury to injury, and the harm will be multiplied several times. Any disease, including cancer, is rebellious and heterogeneous in our body, and our body has an education system and a police system, and they are not allowed to be unrestrained.Take cancer as an example: compared to the entire human body, tumors are too small; compared to all the cells in the human body, the number of cancer cells is also minuscule.Just like this society, the number of gangsters is always very small, while the masses of the people are boundless.But the fact is often that the broad masses of the people are subdued by a few gangsters.For example, it often happened in the past, when two or three robbers jumped into a bus, they were so vicious, so the people in the bus were frightened and stupid, and they all paid for it, and even allowed them to commit crimes.The same happens in our body, where the cancer cells spread freely. At this time, as long as someone in the crowd yells and takes the lead to rush up, the crowd will immediately become excited. How can the gangsters fight?Just as the confidence, courage, hope, and kindness in our hearts are awakened, the body will immediately change its state, and the disease is like a gangster, who either flees in a hurry or is caught without a fight.There is also a more interesting situation, just like in the movie, the crowd in the car was laughing and joking at the beginning, and the gangsters didn't take it seriously when they came.Without the atmosphere of robbing, the gangsters were at a loss, and even shouted: "Be serious, we are robbing." Although this is the plot in the movie, it is also reasonable, and it also inspires our self-cultivation. Cancer cells are also like those gangsters, hoping that all the cells will become tense and numb so that they can work normally and spread rapidly.If our mental power is strong, so that every cell is righteous, where can cancer cells hide?If our hearts are full of happiness, if our body is full of happy cells, then cancer cells will be at a loss. How can we make the disease helpless?It depends on our own inner strength.But most people get sick, that is, they just lie down on the hospital bed and let the doctor treat them as they like. They will get injections when they need injections, take medicine when they need to take medicine, and perform surgery when they need to have surgery.He himself seemed to have nothing to do but moan.This kind of person is pitiful.Why?You get the disease yourself, you get it from your own heart, you need someone to untie the bell, you don’t cooperate, you don’t change your mentality, you blindly entrust yourself to the doctor, and blindly try to get rid of it through external forces How is it possible to cure this disease? Hospitals are very similar to schools. The relationship between doctors and patients is like the relationship between teachers and students.If the patient is completely dependent on the doctor, he will take whatever medicine the doctor gives him, thinking that this will cure the disease. It is like in school, where students think that they only need to sit in the classroom and rely on the teacher for the rest.How can such a student have good grades?At this time the patient is passive.If the patient can actively adjust the mental state that causes the disease, it is like a teacher pointing a way and a direction. As for how to go, it is entirely up to the student to explore and correct the previous shortcomings. This is self-study, and the efficiency of self-study is the highest. .Corresponding to the treatment of diseases is "self-healing", the disease will be cured by itself, without the intervention of external healing forces. In the past, in many common people’s homes, there would always be a “Three Star Picture” in the middle of the main room. It was three old people with red faces and pleasant smiles: one was wearing a red robe, holding a ruyi in his hand, and his descendants were around his knees. This was a lucky star; Robe, wearing an official hat, holding a letter, this is Lu Xing; one is wearing a yellow robe, holding a birthday peach, riding a sika deer or a crane, this is the birthday star.There is usually such a couplet next to this painting: "Fu Lu Shou Samsung shines brightly, pine, bamboo and plum are evergreen." What a comfortable life is a high-ranking official with rich salary and boundless blessings and longevity. This is still the ideal of many people! But why does this three-star blessing, fortune, and longevity only favor some people, while being strangers to others?It's not that they are partial, the problem is the people themselves.Blessed are people with a good personality and a small temper; people with a good heart and few selfish desires are blessed; people with a good body and few desires have a long life. Fu, always favors people who have no temper.There is a folk saying: the upper-class people have ability but no temper; the middle-class people have ability but have temper, or have no ability but also have no temper; the inferior people have no ability but have temper.Lucky stars favor the upper class most, followed by the middle class, and the lower class are the most unlucky.He never loses his temper when encountering anything, can endure humiliation, tolerates others, has affinity and appeal, such a person is a person who does a great job, and often responds to everyone, and people respect him and help him wherever he goes.Such a person is called a "lucky star". Selfish desires are another source of bad luck.Only when there is no selfish desire, can there be a salary.When I was young, I heard such a legend: The king of hell asked the ghost who was about to go to the world to be reborn: "When you come to the world, do you want the people in the world to support you, or do you want to support the people in the world?" Later, they all became officials, and those who chose to be raised by the world later became beggars.Although this is a legend, there is a deep philosophy behind it.As a leader, there are many things to deal with. If selfish desires are heavy, there will be an extra layer of restraint and an extra clue, and all inextricable things must be linked to this clue. This is a very complicated matter. Many people Therefore, after all the tricks are exhausted, it will inevitably lead to confusion; once selfish desires are eliminated, the heart will be cheerful and wise, and the handling of things will be decisive and orderly, so that others can't find faults and can't catch the handle.Therefore, people who have no selfish desires in their hearts are often very capable of leadership, and they can always be high-ranking officials and rich salary easily.It can be said that such a person is a "Lu Xing". What is our body?The body is just a slave of the mind, we should not let the slaves deceive the master, the body is the house of the soul, we just need to live in peace of mind, and don’t need to worry too much about its decoration.Physical hobbies are always endless, which bothers many people, just like a slave making many unreasonable demands on his master, which makes the master tired of running around.If the slave is sick, the master should take care of it. If the master is not good, the slave will also get sick. The slave should not make too many unreasonable demands, and the master should not make any fuss, so that both parties can live in peace.If you can get rid of bad habits and use your body to work hard and make achievements, at least you can exercise your body and live a stable life.Therefore, if you properly handle your physical matters, you will be a birthday star. Therefore, the three stars of Fu Lu Shou are entirely created by ourselves.The most important thing is heart and character.