Chapter 9 Chapter 3 Wood Character

A wooden character is like a tree. When the tree is alive, it is flexible, can beautify the environment, can prevent wind and sand, can maintain water and soil, and can absorb carbon dioxide and convert it into oxygen.This is yang wood, that is, active and beneficial wood.This kind of wood, standing there upright, is a symbol of life.People with Yangmu personality are upright, compassionate, conscientious, assertive, and able to make contributions. Yinmu character is a dead tree.Dead wood is always straight and stiff, no matter how much you weather it, it will not bend, it will only rot.Corresponding to human personality, people with Yinmu personality only know themselves and others, lack of benevolence, straight temper, hard heart, arrogance, strong self-knowledge, resistance to superiors and inferiors, disobeying others, and talkative It is easy to contradict others.

Independence is the biggest feature of wood personality.The independence of the Yang wood character is self-reliance, and at the same time, it also considers the surrounding environment, knowing how to create better conditions for its own independence; the independence of the Yin wood character is manifested as self-importance, self-importance, regardless of the surrounding environment and other people's feelings. Wooden people are straight, just like trees are straight.The straightness of Yangmu's character is straightforward and upright, but there is room for maneuver.The straightness of Yinmu's character is stubborn and doesn't know how to make concessions.

Some trees, which grow straight in dense woods, grow crooked when there are no other trees around.People with wooden personality are suitable for living in groups, and will develop faster in an environment full of competition and sense of crisis; on the contrary, in a closed and comfortable environment without competition, they tend to be free and loose, breed inertia, and even become withdrawn and eccentric. People with a wood personality have strong self-esteem and self-awareness, and they are sensitive to their own situation. Therefore, as a person around him, you don't need to say anything about him, let alone say a few words about him to put him under pressure It can be transformed into motivation, on the contrary, this is just to encourage the growth of seedlings.For people with a wooden personality, just believe that "the successful will succeed by itself".

Wooden people are eager to stand out, just like every tree in the woods wants to be the tallest one.But getting ahead also requires a limit. You can't be too taller than other trees in the forest, because "a tree is more beautiful than the forest, and the wind will destroy it", and a big tree is easy to attract wind and get hurt. People with a wooden personality, although they are assertive, don't talk much.Yinmu character, if he doesn't speak, he likes to contradict others; Yangmu character, although he doesn't speak, others still respect him and are willing to approach him.

The wooden character is a very charming character, but it is also easy to go to extremes.We need to let our wood character become Yang wood, which will become the evergreen tree in our life.